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Posted August 5th, 2008 by Michael Airhart

In Biblical times — and in some traditional cultures today — lipstick and knee-length skirts were unseemly indications that a woman was seeking to please men in certain ways at the expense of her own dignity and health.

Women have progressed somewhat since then: Modern women define femininity in ways that value strength of character, not superficiality, dependency, or subservience.

Christine BakkeUnfortunately, top ex-gay activists at Exodus and Focus on the Family seem to show little respect for strong and independent women. They either ignore the needs of women in their “ministry” scams, or they use pseudo-scientific quackery and harsh rules to make women conform to the sort of dignity-defying and unhealthful role-playing that was once condemned.

The ex-gay movement battles femininity — not only among same-sex-attracted women, but also among men (both straight and gay) who do not fit right-wing stereotypes of masculinity.

On Aug. 7, two female former ex-gays — Darlene Bogle and Christine Bakke (pictured) — will share their experiences as lesbians in the ex-gay movement: (Read More)

Posted August 4th, 2008 by Michael Airhart

Focus on the Family said today:

Nearly 3,000 Focus on the Family supporters ‚Äî mostly CitizenLink readers ‚Äî have sent e-mails to the Radio Hall of Fame, thanking the organization for standing by the election of Dr. James Dobson’s radio program. Some gay activists want the honor taken away from Focus on the Family.

In addition to mobilizing his readers, Dobson is gathering support for his induction into the Radio Hall of Fame among right-wing senators.

Truth Wins Out urgently needs your help to block the induction and to send a clear message that the radio industry must not honor scientific fraud, bigotry, and divisive anti-family values.

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Posted August 4th, 2008 by Michael Airhart

Focus on the Family today cheered columnist Mark Joseph’s ultimatum to U.S. Republican presidential candidate John McCain.

Joseph told McCain in an open letter:

Fire up the Straight Talk Express or whatever it’s called and get your tail to Colorado Springs,” he writes. “Evangelicals don’t have popes; they have leaders with names like (Dr.) Dobson, (Chuck) Colson, (Rick) Warren, (Billy) Graham and (Albert) Mohler. Unless you have a death wish, suck it up, fly to Colorado Springs.

Let me be blunt with you: If you don’t do this, you will lose the election. It’s just that simple.

Those words could not have been said more bluntly if they had come directly from the Man himself, Focus chairman James Dobson. Instead, Focus responded with a verbose statement whose tone begins as false gentility and rapidly inflates with megalomania:

Tom Minnery, senior vice president for government and public policy at Focus on the Family Action, said: “Dr. Dobson would gladly open his door to either candidate for a discussion of issues vital to the family.”

While the mainstream media see Dr. Dobson as a “typical televangelist,” Joseph tells CitizenLink he has “always understood Dr. Dobson’s role and influence to be far larger.

“Many moms listen to his show as they car pool their kids around or run errands,” he told CitizenLink. “They trust him on issues of childrearing and want to hear his opinion on other issues, as well.”

Minnery said Joseph accurately describes Dr. Dobson’ influence with millions of American voters. “It’ a deposit of trust built up over 30 years,” he said.

Joseph’s open letter to McCain was paired at FoxNews.com with Joseph’s open letter to Democrat Barack Obama.

Clearly preoccupied with McCain, Focus on the Family had nothing to say today about Joseph’s positive remarks about Obama’s liberal, pro-American, and Christian values.

Posted August 4th, 2008

(Sen. Sam Brownback, Left)

Focus on the Family Admits That Dobson Twists Research, Says TWO

NEW YORK — Truth Wins Out (TWO) today condemned the introduction of a United States Senate resolution to “congratulate” Focus on the Family’ James Dobson for his selection into the Radio Hall of Fame. Sen. Sam Brownback (R-Kan.) sponsored the controversial measure that says Dobson’ program has “benefited the lives of families and individuals across the United States and around the world.”

“It is disgraceful that Senators would consider congratulating James Dobson for his reprehensible radio broadcasts that damage families and promote discrimination,” said Truth Wins Out’ Executive Director Wayne Besen. “Honoring a man who distorts research and misrepresents facts sends the wrong message to youth who are looking for role models. Do we really want young people to think lying and cheating are acceptable ways to promote a viewpoint?”
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Posted August 2nd, 2008 by Michael Airhart

We’ve reported recently about a new chain of lies issued by PFOX (Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays), claiming that gay youth are suicidal disease carriers.

In the first lie, PFOX misused the research of Gary Remafedi, M.D., M.P.H., on suicide attempts in gay youth to argue that people should not identify their sexual orientation at young ages. Remafedi’s findings do not support the contention that young people choose their identity or the timing of events in identity formation. Nor, Remefedi said, is there any evidence that the availability of Gay-Straight Alliances influences those developmental processes. GSAs help defend gay youth from bullying — a key to reducing suicide rates among youth generally. PFOX, on the other hand, seems committed to keeping gay youths closeted out of fear of their classmates, teachers, and family members.

In the second lie, PFOX falsely claimed that 71 percent of gay people aged 13-24 are HIV-positive. Ed Brayton of ScienceBlogs.com read the current U.S. Centers for Disease Control report and found the actual infection rate to be between 3 and 5 percent.

Now the misnamed American “Family” Association has come to the aid of PFOX by telling the lie — without substantiation — that the CDC in June 2007 blamed homosexual sex for 71 percent of all HIV cases. The AFA derived this lie by distorting a CDC factsheet revised in 2007 but based on CDC reports for 2005. According to the factsheet, 53 percent of all U.S. HIV/AIDS diagnoses in 2005 were attributable to men who have sex with men (MSM). Unprotected male-to-male sex could be blamed for 61 percent of U.S. cases among men since the beginning of the epidemic — but fully 27 percent of U.S. HIV diagnoses were in women. The AFA distorted another aspect of the research: CDC research only covers the United States. In the developing world, HIV is spread primarily through heterosexual sex. (Source: U.K. Parliamentary Office of Science and Technology PDF).

Infections related to sexual behavior occur mostly through failure to use safer-sex practices, such as condoms — precautions, it must be noted, that are discouraged by PFOX and its ex-gay allies.

Hat tip: Box Turtle Bulletin

Posted August 1st, 2008 by Wayne Besen
“Crystal Christian” is an exciting new play with music that examines the million-dollar therapy industry of the so-called ex-gay ministries. The play itself attempts to tackle the misuse of the word unnatural in regards to sexual diversity, as well as indict the questionable methods of the ex-gay ministries’ ‘reparative therapy’. The play finds hypocrisy swarming inside the evangelical pageant, where shame is a virus. It would be hysterical if it weren’t so horrifying.

The Magic Theatre has offered to host First Sprout Theatre for a week-long workshop in mid-August that will culminate in three shows over the weekend of August 15-17, 2008 at the Magic Theatre Northside Space, Fort Mason Center, Building D.

August 15th – 8pm
August 16th – 8pm
August 17th – 2:30 pm

Tickets are ten dollars, cash only at the door of the Magic Theatre’s Northside Space. Every show is two for the price of one. Please email: firstsprout@gmail.com, to reserve seats for any of the three performances.

For more information please visit: www.magictheatre.org
Or any email questions to firstsprout@gmail.com or kevloha@yahoo.com

Posted August 1st, 2008

(King James Dobson On His Theocratic Throne)

I knew something was up when I received more than a dozen e-mails last night from irate religious fanatics who insulted me in their special “loving” way. To their credit, these zealots were slightly more polite than the despicable people who sent 50+ hate mails following my appearance on The O’Reilly Factor the night before. Most of these lovely folks wished me a painful death from AIDS or an eternity in Hell. While such letters don’t bother me, as it is part of the job – I’m always impressed by conservative manners and morality.

I soon learned that the new batch of e-mails were generated from Focus on the Family, which had launched a sleazy personal attack against me and my integrity on their online tabloid Citizen Link. I’ve often said that a Focus on the Family ad for the website should read: “Citizen Link: For People Who Don’t Think.” Here is what the tabloid said:

It looks like there will be a few uninvited guests when Dr. James Dobson officially is inducted into the Radio Hall of Fame in November. Gay activist Wayne Besen, who reportedly preferred Howard Stern to win the popular vote, plans to protest the Chicago event. He’s called Dr. Dobson “an extremist who has built his empire on the backs of gays and lesbians” and “a bigot who distorts scientific research. Gary Schneeberger, vice president for media and public relations (PR) at Focus on the Family, called Besen “a PR pro of the first order.” “He puts words into sentences very colorfully,” Schneeberger said. “And that attracts the media’s attention. Unfortunately, he’s a little less adept at putting truth into sentences.”

The most outrageous lie told in the story was that it was gay activists, not James Dobson, who distorted research. I have written two books and hundreds of press releases and articles, yet I have not once been accused by a scientist of distorting his or her work. Meanwhile, Dobson has been taken to the woodshed by seven scientists in two years for twisting their science to fit his version of Scripture. Talk about spin! Here is what Focus on the Falsehoods had to say:

As for “distorting research,” Schneeberger said it’s the gay activists who are doing the distorting.

In 2006, Dr. Dobson was invited to write an opinion piece for TIME magazine about the benefits of traditional marriage to children and society. In the article, Dr. Dobson pointed to a handful of scientific studies that found mothers and fathers parent differently.

“He never said the scientists agreed with his conclusion that gay marriage is bad for society,” Schneeberger said. “He merely said their data could be used to reach his conclusion — which is 100 percent true, but something the scientists didn’t appreciate because of their ideological leanings.”

Here are the facts: The seven scientists from three countries who said that Dobson distorted their work were not so-called gay activists. Indeed, I have no idea about their political leanings any more than Dobson does. When I cold called each scientist to let them know Dobson bastardized their work, they did not even know who I was. Yet, they were grateful at the opportunity to set the record straight and upbraid Double-Talk Dobson for manipulating their research.

Clearly, Dobson is the one lying, not me. By saying otherwise, Focus on the Family is bearing false witness. They are also trying to shoot the messenger (me) because they can’t stand up to the seven scientists who accused Dobson of misrepresenting their studies for political gain.

Memo to Focus – this is not about me, this is about Dobson refusing to address the concerns of these scientists. These esteemed doctors ALL tried to address Focus on the Family and they were met with silence. What is Focus on the Family so afraid of? Why won’t they take the calls or answer the letters from the very scientists that they misquote?

Make no mistake – what Dobson did was lowbrow. He wanted to make the point that gay people are inherently worthless, so he cherry picked work from respected researchers to make it look like their secular, scientific conclusions bolstered his religious opinions. As a former child psychologist, he has the training to splice and dice this legitimate research to make it appear as if it supported his erroneous and unsubstantiated conclusions. Thus, it is fair to conclude that Dobson knew exactly what he was doing and therefore his distortions were likely deliberate.

Dobson should apologize for his outrageously immoral behavior. Notice that in the Citizen Link article, he did not mention that there were SEVEN researchers who took him to task in a period of two years. Notice, that he and his PR puppet Gary Schneeberger did not link to any of Truth Wins Out’s videos.

By withholding such crucial information, Focus on the Family ensured that their members who read the tabloid story were unable to judge the veracity of Dobson’s claims. Leave it to Focus on the Family to give their fans half the story and a quarter of the facts so they are unable to come to their own conclusions. Sometimes, it seems this organization disrespects their own members and donors, even more than the gay community.

Focus on the Family must realize that Truth Wins Out is determined to expand its Respect My Research program in the coming year. We are only going to make lying more difficult for this organization. Dobson and Schneeberger are playing a game they are not going to win – as the Truth is a powerful weapon that can overcome the money-changer amounts of money that flow through their luxurious castle in Colorado Springs.

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