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Posted October 23rd, 2008 by Michael Airhart

James Dobson, more than most conservatives, has eroded hopes that John McCain and Sarah Palin will soon occupy a Republican White House.

From his proud koffee-klatch with Palin, to his alienation of Colin Powell, to his wars against science and against radio decency, to his all-too-public obsession with sex acts (spare us!), to his reckless doomsaying against a liberal Christian president from Hawaii, to his absolute disinterest in the United States’ economic and military well-being, Dobson seems to be doing all he can to elect Democrat Barack Obama.

Perhaps worst of all, Dobson — like so many GOP big-wigs — has nothing positive to say about McCain/Palin.

I’m not personally endorsing Obama, mind you — I am offended by both candidates’ horrible handling to the Wall Street bailout.

I’m just sayin’.

Posted October 23rd, 2008 by Michael Airhart

The blog of the Gay and Lesbian Activists against Defamation finds a mix of virtue and vice in a recent article about the “ex-gay” movement that was published by The Times of London.

Virtues: The article exposed many of the unfortunate and unhealthy truths about the ex-gay movement that TWO noted Oct. 13.

Vices: The report failed to fully fact-check certain ex-gay claims. A 2007 survey of ex-gay “success” stories was debunked by numerous observers, and that report was subsidized by the very group — Exodus International — that was being surveyed.

The GLAAD blog concludes:

Journalists and those who read stories about the so-called “ex-gay” industry must always view any statements from these activists with skepticism. Our website “Unmasking So-Called “Ex-Gay’ Activists” contains several pointers for journalists on how to avoid giving credibility to the many misleading statements propagated by so-called “ex-gay” activists.

It goes almost without saying that journalists may also explore the resources right here at TruthWinsOut.org and RespectMyResearch.org.

Posted October 22nd, 2008 by Michael Airhart

The religious-right propaganda service OneNewsNow today parroted an apparently false claim by Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays that the organization filed a lawsuit against the District of Columbia Office of Human Rights.

Heck — in today’s “conservative” political climate, ONN’s recklessness is not only logical, but moral.

After all… why fact-check a publicity-hungry claim by one’s right-wing allies when falsehoods are more effective in impressing one’s base of support and scaring taxpayers?

Addendum: Eugene Volokh of the conservative Volokh Conspiracy agrees with PFOX’s critics: Ex-gays are already covered under D.C.’s expansive anti-discrimination and human-rights law — and the National Education Association has the free-speech right not to allow its events to be commandeered by PFOX pundits who oppose its public policy positions regarding education.

Posted October 22nd, 2008

The Dump Dobson campaign to raise awareness about the Museum of Broadcast Communication’ plan to induct James Dobson into its Radio Hall of Fame is gaining momentum. Across the political spectrum, people are talking about our efforts to educate America on why Dobson is unfit and undeserving of honors. Here is a sample of the most recent reports:

Chicago News

NBC Chicago

Chicago Public Radio

Windy City Times

General News

The Miami Herald

Colorado Springs Gazette

Streaming Magazine

Minnesota Independent

Good As You

Page One Q

Pride Source

David Mixner’ Blog

Gayzette Blog

Pink News UK

Marc Arendt

The Huffington Post

365Gay.com

Lavender Liberal

Pink Triangle

John Selig Outspoken

My Gay Online

Just Out

Clinging to a Rock

Feast of Fools

Fannie’ Room

Gay News Blog

Anti-Gay Sites

Focus on the Family

Stacy Harp

Junk Activism

Anglicans Ablaze

Posted October 21st, 2008

(The Radio Hall of Shame’s Bruce DuMont, Left)

I once had a revealing conversation with an A-list news reporter, when I was trying to convince him to cover the scientific distortions of Focus on the Family’s James Dobson. He declined to do so because he felt that Dobson lies so frequently that it wasn’t news.

With the media inured to Dobson’s Fib Factory and its assembly line of lies, it is difficult for the truth to gain traction. I believe, however, that the press has it backwards. Each nugget of nonsense peddled by ideologues, such as Dobson, should be on the front page of every newspaper and lead daily newscasts. Allowing falsehoods to fester has created a cynical political climate where truth is whatever a press release says it is.

This lack of accountability has allowed Dobson, and others of his ilk, to portray themselves as spokespersons for morality, even though they are regularly engaged in glaring examples of moral turpitude. Occasionally, they are even honored for their sinister “success” and showered with undeserved adulation.

For example, on Nov. 8, the Museum of Broadcast Communications (MBC) is scheduled to induct Dobson into its Radio Hall of Fame in celebration of his unquestionable broadcasting achievements. He regularly appears on 3,000 radio stations across the world and has built a $150 million anti-gay empire in Colorado Springs.

The MBC says that Dobson’s longevity and success qualify him for honors, even though they will essentially be bronzing his bigotry. In my view, the Radio Hall of Fame devalues its worth when it blithely honors a broadcaster with an amoral indifference to content and good character. Dobson’s self-righteous ranting about gay people overrides his ratings and the prejudice he perpetuates overshadows his popularity. If Major League Baseball can keep superstar Pete Rose out of its Hall of Fame because of integrity issues, its broadcasting counterpart can rescind its invitation to Dobson.

The MBC takes the antiseptic, hands-off view that Dobson’s red meat is meaningless blather that affects no one. They seem to believe that gay people are not harmed when the millions of devout listeners hear Dobson bellow that gay marriage will, “destroy the earth.” Or, that no one will seek revenge on gay people after Dobson shrieks, “For more than 40 years, the homosexual activist movement has sought to implement a master plan that has had as its centerpiece the utter destruction of the family.”

Thanks to such inflammatory rhetoric, hate crimes against gay people still occur daily. According to 2006 FBI statistics, hate crimes based on sexual orientation constituted the third highest category reported and made up 15.5 percent of all reported hate crimes. Only race-based and religion-based prejudice crimes were more prevalent than hate crimes based on sexual orientation.

While Dobson does not outright call for violence, he does use his “ex-gay” ministry, Love Won Out, to portray GLBT people, as immoral reprobates who could choose to change if they weren’t too stubborn to accept God. By positioning homosexuality as a behavior that can be prayed away, he is offering people a way to justify discriminatory and even violent behavior — all in the guise of loving the sinner.

What Dobson fails to tell his listeners is that efforts to alter sexual orientation are considered damaging by the American Psychiatric Association, The American Medical Association, The American Psychological Association and the American Academy of Pediatrics.

One also wonders why the MBC would honor Dobson until it had fully investigated serious allegations that he distorted scientific research. In the past two years, seven prominent scientists have demanded that he stop citing their work because he misrepresented their conclusions on homosexuality. New York University educational psychologist, Carol Gilligan, PhD., appeared in a video saying that Dobson “was not truthful” and that he should “refrain from ever quoting me again.” Dr. Kyle Pruett, a professor of child psychiatry at the Yale University School of Medicine claimed Dobson “cherry picked” his conclusions. University of Minnesota’s Gary Remafedi, M.D., M.P.H. wrote a letter to Dobson that clamed he engaged in “a gross misrepresentation of our research.”

Finally, Andrew Colvin, 16, contacted me a week ago. He had recently come out to his mother who he says listens to James Dobson’s radio show. Instead of accepting her son, she gave Andrew Focus on the Family’s anti-gay books. Thanks to Dobson, things became so tense that Andrew moved out of his mother’s home in Colorado to live with his father in Arizona.

Sadly, America is littered with stories, such as Andrew’s, where Dobson has taken his microphone and turned it into a club to bludgeon families. The pain is raw and the scars are real. Yet, this cruel reality will be supplanted by a Disneyfied version in the Radio Hall of Fame, where Dobson’s viciousness will be euphemized as “virtues” and “values.”

The MBC should stop pandering to the right wing and do the right thing by dumping Dobson from its Radio Hall of Fame. And, the media should start doing its job by holding Dobson accountable. Let’s focus on the facts and stop peddling the fiction that James Dobson’s actions are worthy of anything but condemnation.

Posted October 21st, 2008

Ex-Gay Watch reported today that anti-gay activist Greg Quinlan’ wife of three years, Cheryl Quinlan, appears to have received a decree of divorce in May of 2007, having filed the initial complaint seventeen months earlier.

Who can blame her? From my personal experience, Greg Quinlan is one of the most insufferable, dishonest and phony anti-gay zealots in the nation.

The Quinlan family shamelessly paraded their marriage through the media to prove that people could pray away the gay. Greg exploited his union in a successful political effort to ban gay people from marrying in Ohio. He and Cheryl also capitalized on their wedding by appearing in Dr. Warren Throckmorton’ hopeless “ex-gay” movie, “I Do Exist.” That Throckmorton hasn’t burned the remaining copies of this humiliating train wreck in a giant bonfire (or, more appropriately, Hellfire) says all you need to know about his values and morality.

Now, instead of being honest about his failed marriage to an “ex-lesbian,” Quinlan, also an ex-gay poster boy, slunk out of Ohio in the dead of night and went to work for the New Jersey Family Policy Council. When you go to the group’ website, they have much to say about gay people. However, notably missing from the “issues” section of the site are editorials about divorce. Perhaps, now that Quinlan has personal experience in this arena, he can contribute to the commentary. He can begin by writing an essay on why Jesus never mentioned homosexuality, but was quite clear that divorce was unacceptable.

I want to know why Quinlan is still working for a “pro-family” organization, when the one family unit he was responsible for – he destroyed. Who does this hypocrite think he is to tell me or anyone else how to run their family? Aside from wrecking a marriage, what makes this holier-than-thou busybody an expert? It seems he would get his own house in order before preaching to others. But, unfortunately, these types who fight their inner-demons by attacking others on the public stage can never mind their own business. (Read More)

Posted October 20th, 2008 by Wayne Besen

Truth Wins Out (TWO) today called on Parents and Friends of “Ex-Gays’ (PFOX) to clarify whether it actually filed a frivolous lawsuit against the Washington, DC Office of Human Rights. PFOX claimed it launched its alleged suit because so-called “ex-gays” are not protected under its sexual orientation anti-discrimination law.

At the request of a reporter, D.C. Superior Court looked through all the court’s case records and could find no “lawsuit” filed by PFOX against the D.C. Office of Human Rights. What they found was a filing called a “Petition for Review of Agency Decision.” The court does not consider this a lawsuit.

PFOX responded to the Washington Blade by calling their cockamamie legal maneuver a “lawsuit of sorts.” I guess this is similar to their absurd sexual engineering program that produces heterosexuals of sorts.

“PFOX needs to clarify whether they filed an actual lawsuit, or was this simply another one of their bizarre publicity stunts,” said Wayne Besen, Executive Director of Truth Wins Out. “This is one of the most outrageously dishonest organizations in America, so nothing would surprise me.”

PFOX is a political organization that sells the idea that people can “pray away the gay.” It was founded by lawyer Roy Cohn’ ex-boyfriend, Anthony Falzarono, and bankrolled by the Family Research Council. It was later run by therapist Richard Cohen, who was banned for life by the American Counseling Association. The current leader is Regina Griggs, who has an openly gay son.

Posted October 17th, 2008

CHECK OUT FULL-PAGE AD IN THE CHICAGO TRIBUNE

CHICAGO — The Dump Dobson coalition, a partnership of local and national gay, lesbian bisexual and transgender (GLBT) organizations, held a press conference to denounce the Museum of Broadcast Communications (MBC) for its plan to honor James Dobson in its Radio Hall of Fame. The awards ceremony is planned for Nov. 8., and the Dump Dobson Coalition is strongly urging MBC Founder, Bruce DuMont, to rescind the award or face a protest outside of its annual dinner.

The Coalition has launched a website, DumpDobson.com and debuted its ad campaign with a full-page in the Chicago Tribune today. This will be followed by signature ads in the LGBT media that urge people to join the coalition’ efforts. The Dump Dobson Coalition is headed by the The Gay Liberation Network and Truth Wins Out and has so far been joined by Equality Illinois, SoulForce and the National Youth Advocacy Coalition.

“Bruce DuMont would never honor a Don Imus, disgraced for his anti-African American remarks,” said Bob Schwartz of the Chicago-based Gay Liberation Network. “Nor would 1930s radio icon Father Charles Caughlin — the widely syndicated pro-Nazi and anti-Semite– be feted. Yet, in honoring James Dobson, Mr. DuMont appears to promote a “gay exception’ to the standards of public civility and decency rightly accorded other groups of people.”

“There is still time to reverse the reckless and irresponsible decision to honor James Dobson in the Radio Hall of Fame,” said Truth Wins Out’ Executive Director Wayne Besen. “It is unconscionable that the Museum is giving its imprimatur to a demagogue who has profited from divisive and discriminatory rhetoric. If the museum wants to regain its respect and credibility, it will dump Dobson.”

The Museum of Broadcast Communications opened up its Radio Hall of Fame balloting to allow people on the Internet to vote. James Dobson used his Focus on the Family show, which runs on 3,000 radio stations, to essentially stuff the ballot box. As a result, the Radio Hall of Fame is now honoring an anti-gay bigot who has built his radio empire on the backs of GLBT people. Honoring this ideologue is especially troubling during an economic downturn, which allows people like Dobson to scapegoat and promote discrimination.

“We have our work cut out for us, considering Focus on the Family is a wealthy and powerful organization that is on the White House’ speed dial,” said GLN’ co-founder Andy Thayer. “This campaign hopes to educate those involved with the Radio Hall of Fame — such as the steering committee and MBC donors – who can then hopefully act with a clear conscience and do what is right.”

Dobson once said that allowing gay people to marry will “end the earth.” Seven scientists have accused him of distorting their work to support his anti-gay teachings. Letters and videos of these researchers can be found at www.RespectMyResearch.org. The Dump Dobson coalition was formed to educate people about the danger of honoring Dobson and to urge the MBC to take prudent and responsible action.

Posted October 14th, 2008

Andrew is a 16 year old boy who came out to his mother in Colorado. She was an avid reader of Focus on the Family’ books and used them to try to get Andrew to change his sexual orientation. Focus on the Family sent books, videos and other ex-gay propaganda that told Andrew that there was something wrong with him. It convinced his mother that he could change from gay to straight. When he could not change, things got so tense in the house that he moved out to live with his father in Arizona.

Andrew is a real life example how Focus on the Family and James Dobson divide families. On this video, he urges the Radio Hall of Fame not to honor a man who has caused so much pain for his family.

Posted October 14th, 2008

NEW YORK — Truth Wins Out (TWO) today called on Parents and Friends of “Ex-Gays’ (PFOX) to drop its frivolous lawsuit against the Washington, DC Office of Human Rights. PFOX claimed it launched its suit because so-called “ex-gays” are not protected under its sexual orientation anti-discrimination law.

“The ex-gay community is the most bullied and maligned group in America, yet they are not protected by sexual orientation non-discrimination laws,” said Regina Griggs, PFOX executive director.

“If so-called “ex-gays’ are now heterosexual, they are covered under the basis of sexual orientation,” said Wayne Besen, Executive Director of Truth Wins Out. “This nonsensical lawsuit is frivolous and a desperate, grandstanding attempt for free media attention. PFOX should apologize for clogging up the court system with a loony lawsuit that will ultimately be dismissed.”

TWO also disputes that so-called “ex-gays” suffer discrimination. PFOX has never offered any evidence and has long invented or greatly exaggerated potential cases. PFOX is a political organization that sells the idea that people can “pray away the gay.” It was founded by lawyer Roy Cohn’ ex-boyfriend, Anthony Falzarono, and bankrolled by the Family Research Council. It was later run by therapist Richard Cohen, who was banned for life by the American Counseling Association. The current leader is Regina Griggs, who has an openly gay son.