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Posted June 4th, 2010 by Wayne Besen

greg-quinlan-tnParents and Friends of Ex-Gays (PFOX) are up to their tired tricks once again. A bunch of seemingly unstable oddballs (Regina Griggs, Richard Cohen, Greg Quinlan, con artist Arthur Abba Goldberg) strategize on ways they can be rejected from sundry venues based on their spectacular idiocy and remarkable irrelevance. Then, they make a big fuss and whine to the media that “ex-gays” are victims, hoping they will get their names in the newspaper and feel important.

Their other tactic is to host disinformation booths at state and county fairs and fake hate crimes by provoking innocent gay bystanders, so they can claim that “ex-gays” are a persecuted minority.

PFOX is far and away the sickest and most profoundly disturbed group of people I have dealt with in more than twenty years of activism. They are the lowest of the low — grotesque bottom feeders of the anti-gay industry. There is not a sane, rational voice within this entire organization and hasn’t been since the group’s founding by the Family Research Council in 1998.

This buffoonish organization has virtually no accomplishments or even a discernible mission. Unlike Exodus, which tries to help people unsuccessfully “pray away the gay” (“Freedom from Homosexuality Through Jesus Christ”, for those historical revisionists who deny they pray away the gay), PFOX does….absolutely nothing.

The organization exists as a platform for a couple of showboats who are fighting for the right to show off. It’s one big ego trip to elevate otherwise unimportant people. After all, if Cohen and Quinlan were not “ex-gays” they would be nobodies.

Indeed, they have had no bearing on the debate over the efficacy of “ex-gay” therapy. And, Grigg’s son is still a practicing ho-mo-SEX-ual. After a decade of futile “activism” have you changed him Regina? Does he have a special gal pal yet? If not, why do you continue to run PFOX, given your own personal failure to convert your own son?

Griggs will never answer these questions, and prefers to continue warring with her own family. I just thank God for the parents I have and that I was not born into such a dysfunctional dystopia that clearly exists in the Grigg’s household.

PFOX’s latest tantrum is against the Parents Teachers Association (PTA). Griggs and company are in a predictable swivet because the PTA has wisely rejected the hate group’s demand to host an exhibit peddling anti-gay lies and junk science at their national convention. PFOX knew this would happen, but they are making a stink because they are stage horses who crave ink.

PFOX wrongly says there is a double standard because the PTA allows gay exhibits. Perhaps, this is because the LGBT groups are FOR something — which is equality. If they had positioned themselves as “ex-heterosexuals” with dishonest and mean-spirited pamphlets denouncing the “dangerous” heterosexual lifestyle, the LGBT groups would have been rejected too.

PFOX is not for “ex-gays” (which PFOX has not proven actually exist outside politics), but they are simply anti-gay and anyone with common sense knows this, including the PTA.

PFOX also has the distinction of promoting fake science that is not peer reviewed. They rely on charlatans such as the disgraced George “rent boy” Rekers. Convicted con artist Arthur Abba Goldberg is in charge of its speakers bureau. Their former president, Richard Cohen, was expelled for life from the American Counseling Association for malpractice. Why would the PTA elect to put vulnerable children in the hands of these potentially dangerous and discredited figures?

Furthermore, if so-called “ex-gays” are now heterosexual, they are welcome at the PTA in any capacity. What PFOX is essentially saying is that “ex-gays” are not heterosexuals, but some new sexual orientation.

PFOX has never articulated what an “ex-gay” actually is, since by their own definition they are separate from straight people. What this group offers is a nebulous and convoluted mission and description of who they are and what they stand for. This is why they are rightfully bounced from credible organizations.

Still, in the name of vanity and the rush of the great media spotlight, PFOX persists in its insanity:

“PFOX emailed the PTA for eight months while seeking a response to our request for an exhibit booth at the annual PTA convention,” said Regina Griggs, executive director of PFOX. “We also left voice mail messages for Saylors.”

“But Saylors chose not to speak with PFOX. Instead, he sent an email accusing us of not meeting the PTA’ “Diversity and Inclusion Policy.’” (See Saylor’ email at http://pfox.org/NPTA_Diversity_Inclusion_Policy.pdf)

“Why is it gay groups meet the PTA Diversity and Inclusion Policy but our families do not? “Diversity’ and “inclusion’ should mean exactly that ‚Äî diversity and inclusion of everyone,” said Griggs. (See PFOX email to PTA at http://pfox.org/pta-diversity.html)

“Instead, gay groups like PFLAG that deny public access to ex-gays and disrupt church events welcoming former homosexuals are approved by the PTA while ex-gay groups are not,” said Griggs.

“Now the PTA is pressuring its state PTA chapters nationwide to adopt its biased national diversity policy, which includes ‘exual orientation,’ even though that term is selectively used to discriminate against people of faith and ex-gay families.”

“The PTA has become a left-wing advocacy group instead of serving the needs of all children,” said Griggs.

Where to begin?

LGBT groups are inclusive of gay people, heterosexuals, asexuals, bisexuals and transgender people. That about covers the spectrum. PFOX, rejects virtually all these categories. So, one group is diverse and accepting, while the other is defined by who it rejects and what they once claim to have been.

The notion that PFLAG is storming churches and disrupting services is just absurd and comes from PFOX’s legendary paranoia. It certainly is not rooted in reality and is an example of demagoguery of the most obscene kind. Such blatant lies are why the PTA and other groups should continue rejecting PFOX.

Folks, please take a moment and contact Chuck Saylors at csaylors@pta.org or csaylors@mbkahn.com and thank him for rejecting PFOX. This despicable hate group has no place at the June 10 PTA conference in Memphis.

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9 Comments »

  1. If there was a Hell there would be a special place in it for PFOX.

    Comment by Daniel — June 4, 2010 @ 3:33 pm

  2. It is indeed a shame there will be no hell for Quinlan to go to.

    Comment by Darwin's Bulldog — June 4, 2010 @ 7:28 pm

  3. That bizzaro, pod people picture of Cohen with Chucky on the shelf still gives me the creeps.

    Comment by Gary (NJ) — June 5, 2010 @ 3:42 pm

  4. Ghenna (hell) IS real. I know WHAT it is and HOW it works. There’s nothing “supernatural” about it. And yes — there will be a place there for people such as P-Fox members, Narth, Exodus, Liars Inc, etc…
    HOWEVER: There will also be a place there for people who promote the ideology of engaging in dangerous sexual acts (such as analsex which is –according to the CDC & WHO, -some 5000% more likely to spread STDs than even 0ral) under the giant lie that it’s “gay-sex”.
    Our group is the nightmare of the ‘religious-reicht’ because we beat the lying-snot out of them with their own Bibles on the issues of same gender attractions. However, as g0ys — we’re also not well accepted by the “gay-male-community” because we point out simply what the CDC & World Health Organizations have long said about the predominant sexual practices that “gay-men” are notorious for practicing, promoting & demanding tolerance for! As former gay-activist confessed in his bio: {“And you are still doing it. You are still murdering each other. Please stop with all the generalizations and avoidance excuses gays have used since the beginning to ditch this responsibility for this fact. From the very first moment we were told in 1981 that the suspected cause was a virus, gay men have refused to accept our responsibility for choosing not to listen, and, starting in 1984, when we were told it definitely was a virus, this behavior turned murderous.” – Larry Kramer}
    It seems OBVIOUS to me that IF the GAY-MALE community would grow a moral-spine, –that the religious reicht would have much less to rant about. but at the present time — it seems that both groups of finger pointers are predominantly Hell-bound.
    G0YS are men who love men & have taken the moral-high-road. GAY-MEN can’t yell “HOMOPHOBIC!” at g0ys; –but neither can the religious-reicht call us “Ex-Gay”. Isn’t it time people thought outside the box on these issues?

    Comment by Livin Ittmann — June 6, 2010 @ 11:33 am

  5. Honey– you may not like anal sex–totally up to you. But the rest of what you have to say is just hooey, and quite possibly self-hate inspired hooey at that.

    The problem– obvious to anyone who understands the slightest bit about disease transmission– is non-monogamy, followed up with non-monogamy and non-condom.

    I don’t promote or demand tolerance for anal sex– nor does any other gay man I know– for a very simple reason: I don’t have sex in public, and I do not invite other people– other than my husband– into my sex life.

    And you know what? since you’re spouting off nonsense about the CDC, you should note where some 37% of heterosexuals practice anal sex as well.

    But more nonsense?? You’re not accepted into the gay male community because you don’t do it? Maybe I’m just caught up in my liberated bubble life, but I can’t think of any gay men I know who give even a small goddam how other people have sex.

    As for gay men growing a moral spine, and they’ll like us more if we don’t do it? WTF? Lesbians basically don’t do it at all, and yet I can hardly see the religious reich saying “Wow. Lesbians! they’re the good homosexuals.”

    And this “G0YS are men who love men & have taken the moral-high-road. GAY-MEN can’t yell “HOMOPHOBIC!” at g0ys; –but neither can the religious-reicht call us “Ex-Gay”. Isn’t it time people thought outside the box on these issues?”

    WTF? It doesn’t even make any sense.

    Actually, it does. Do we have a little religious reich trolling going on here?

    Comment by Ben in Oakland — June 6, 2010 @ 12:18 pm

  6. A school’s first obligation is to teach straight forward facts in historical context, and to create an atmosphere in which all students can cooperate with each other and be safe.

    What PFOX espouses has no basis in science or facts, but in dogma. Their message is divisive and damaging in the extreme.
    And every credible psychological and medical peer group backs it up.
    PFOX has no such support.
    Indeed, these peer groups can’t be utilized for political agendas that discriminate.

    PFOX is attached to a definitively political group whose sole purpose is discrimination and bigotry against the LGBT.
    Further, there is no discrimination against ex gays, nor is there any proof that there has been harassment or any form of action in which they are denied full access or are at risk of threats of violence.
    Gay children however, do have a higher risk of dropping out, losing their educational opportunities and are threatened physically and mentally.

    PFOX simply wants to foment and exploit that, not prevent it.

    Richard Cohen was seen beating something representative of a mother figure.
    Yeah, I’m so sure educational institutions want children seeing that…and following that example.

    Comment by Regan DuCasse — June 6, 2010 @ 1:01 pm

  7. Hey Livin, Ghenna? G0ys? Is this some kind of crazy Christian speak? You should realize that you’re just a sad, brainwashed drone who can’t think for yourself. Your use of jargon proves it. By the way, I’ve engaged in lots of sexual practice and I’ve never been injured and haven’t injured anyone else. You, on the other hand, with your anti-gay hatred have probably harmed inumerable people. Clean your own house.

    Comment by Daniel — June 6, 2010 @ 8:57 pm

  8. Livin Ittmann–wtf? That was one of the mose batshit posts I’ve ever read. What are you trying to say? Do you even know what you’re trying to say–or are you just typing random words?

    Comment by Becky — June 6, 2010 @ 9:06 pm

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