Here’s another part of the so-called “culture wars” that we’ve won:
A majority of Americans now say their definition of family includes same-sex couples with children, as well as married gay and lesbian couples.
At the same time, most Americans do not consider unmarried cohabiting couples, either heterosexual or same-sex, to be a family — unless they have children.
The findings — part of a survey conducted this year as well as in 2003 and 2006 by Brian Powell, a sociology professor at Indiana University, Bloomington — are reported in a new book, “Counted Out: Same-Sex Relations and Americans’ Definitions of Family,” to be published on Wednesday by the Russell Sage Foundation. Since the surveys began, the proportion of people who reported having a gay friend or relative rose 10 percentage points, said Professor Powell, the book’s lead author.
“This is not because more people are gay now than in 2003,” he said. “This indicates a more open social environment in which individuals now feel more comfortable discussing and acknowledging sexuality. Ironically with all the antigay initiatives, all of a sudden people were saying the word ‘gay’ out loud. Just the discussion about it made people more comfortable.”
Ouch, that’s got to sting the Maggie Gallaghers and Brian Browns of the world, that a by-product of their hate campaigns against gay families is that they’ve helped to normalize discussion about sexuality, which ultimately brings people to our side.
I guess they’ll pack up shop and shut up, now?
Nah.
I have always felt that these anti-gay campaigns, whether by Anita Bryant, Focus on the Family or more recently the Mormon Church and National Organization for Marriage, in the long run strengthen gay rights by bringing the issues out into the open. There is short term damage (serious damage) to GLBT people, but in the long run, people start to ask themselves, “Why shouldn’t gay people be allowed to marry, adopt kids, serve in the military, work without fear of being fired because of who they are?”