This is truly loathsome.
Tintin at Sadly, No! points us to a column written by gay quisling Alex Knepper, he who defends date rape, which outright states that Tyler Clementi’s suicide is neither tragic, nor sad, nor anything else. Yep, he’s blaming Clementi, in a column for Tucker Carlson’s Daily Choler:
First of all: forgive me if my sympathy runs thin for someone who commits suicide over a sex tape. This incident is humiliating and shameful, to be sure — but in the grand, cosmic scheme of things, it doesn’t even begin to rank as tragic. We have got to be realistic when assessing this event and maintain publicly that humiliation is a preposterous rationale for suicide.
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[T]housands of people are humiliated on this scale in the United States on a yearly — perhaps monthly — basis. Most of them deal with the shame in ways other than throwing themselves off of a bridge. Are we to assume that this guy, who we keep getting told was brilliant and talented, didn’t have the cognitive skills to think this through?
Yeah, so instead of considering the possibility that there might have been other mitigating factors here, that maybe Tyler wasn’t ready to come out, that maybe he hadn’t worked through his acceptance of his sexuality, maybe we should just make fun of him, right Alex?
It’s unfortunate that I find myself compelled to discuss this event in such terms, but there’d be no need to discuss it at all if ideologues weren’t trying to appropriate it for their own purposes. As is typical when these sorts of events transpire, the Gay Party — in this case, its representatives are Garden State Equality — is jumping all over this bizarre saga to hijack it for its own wants. To recapitulate: the organization’s spokesman deemed the incident a “hate crime” and said that he was “sickened” that anyone would “consider destroying others’ lives as a sport.”
Yeah, Garden State Equality are the real villains here. Hey Alex, did you hear about the other kids who committed suicide in the past two weeks? Have you used your little quisling fingers to make fun of them yet? I suppose we’re just jumping all over those too, appropriating them for our own purposes.
Knepper goes on to suggest that, hey, maybe those kids who filmed him didn’t hate gay people at all! Maybe they were just funnin’! Then he calls the people at Garden State Equality “ideologues.”
Tintin responds in the only appropriate way:
The real crime here is the one being committed by Knepper as he collaborates with, and gives support to, the forces that want us to pretend that bullying doesn’t exist, or that it is only directed at gay youths, who don’t count because they’re gay or, worse, who don’t count because they allow humiliation to drive them to suicide.
Pardon me for thinking that the world would be a better place if it was Alex Knepper who jumped off the GW Bridge and not a talented, sweet-tempered young violinist.
I’ll pardon you, Tintin.
UPDATE: Knepper is trolling the comments section at Sadly, No! If you want to watch/participate…










Dharun Ravi and Molly Wei ARE guilty of a hate crime, no matter how you look at it. But they probably won’t be charged with one:
http://gravelle.us/content/tyler-clementi-hate-crime-victim
Congratulations, lawmakers. Once again, you’ve made a tragic situation even worse…
-jjg
Wow, there is something really wrong with some of these people. Whether or not these two students killed anyone personally isn’t the point.
I think Garden State Equality is doing a good job to raise awareness.
However, I am not sure it is a hate crime. It may be one — but I would have to learn more details about the case before I decide.
What these kids did was immature, and invasion of privacy, horrible judgment and maybe even hateful.
But for it to be a hate crime, in my view, the kids would have to basically have decided to concoct a plan to target Clementi based on his sexual orientation with the intent to do enormous damage.
Again, this may very well be the case. And the result was surely devastating. But, I would caution people to wait for the motive to judge whether it rises to the level of a hate crime.
In any case, it is a good moment to educate people about the harm caused by anti-gay attitudes. And we are fortunate that Garden State Equality is out there in the trenches informing people on this crucial issue.
Yeah, I’m not sure it’s specifically a “hate crime” either, but I AM sure that it’s part in parcel of the same problems that lead far too many gay kids to early deaths.
For Knepper to immediately join in with those ganging up on Tyler Clementi is, as I said, loathsome.
One of Wing Nut Daily’s columnists Vox Popoli is starting in as well.
http://voxday.blogspot.com/2010/09/gay-rights-killed-clementi.html
Yep, Scott, I have a piece on that two below this one.
I’m probably going to be very unpopular right now.
I share every bit of sorrow and concern as everyone else about tyler’s death. I am as enraged and concerned about homophobia and its corrupting, murderous effects. It is a scandal and a tragedy that young people killing themselves is the only way to bring this to the attention of an indifferent hetero-supremacist world.
But the writer has a point: the reaction was extreme for reasons we don’t know. And that is the point. we don’t know. We’re not tyler, his firends, or his family. we’re people on the internet who share a common concern..
The roommate’s behaviour was at best immature and at worst completely despicable. He may be a closet case himself. who knows? But apparently, Tyler felt comfortable enough as a young gay man to ask his rommate to vacate the room for the evening. the roomie knew what for.
What happened to Tyler, and what he did, are tragic. He is probably a martyr to homophobia. But does it may him the poster boy for all victims of anti-gay bullying?
That I’m not so sure about.
We’re not either, but my point, Ben, is that it’s all part in parcel of the same thing.
The thing that pisses me off, if anything, is that writers like the loathsome Alex Knepper are fixating on this story, because they’ve figured out wingnut talking points for it, and they’re ignoring all the other gay teen suicides.
Ben, it is irrelevant if most people might have handled this humiliation better. Tyler did not and those who drove him to such desperation must be held criminally liable.
Let’s secretly videotape Knepper doing a sex act and post it on the internet and see how he feels then. (Hmm, maybe that’s what he secretly wants though…only who would watch it? Or is he afraid that no one would?)
What a sick douchebag.
I tried reading some of the comments at “Sadly, No!”; at last count, the thread was over 500-but I just couldn’t stomach Knepper. In addition to everything else, he’s also such a pretentious narcissist that if you called him a high-functioning sociopath, he’d take it as a compliment, because he’d focus on the “high-functioning” part.
[...] represents a stark difference from the loathsome words we read from gay conservative Alex Knepper on the subject of Tyler [...]