Same old story, different side of the ocean.
Counselor is fundamentalist Christian, counselor behaves in a way that violates the standards of her profession by trying to “help” a gay man become straight, counselor faces disciplinary action, counselor cries discrimination, counselor should get job where the standards aren’t so hard/professional, etc.
Mrs Pilkington was targeted by a gay journalist who persuaded her to help him change his sexuality. Patrick Strudwick attended sessions with her with a tape recorder strapped to his stomach and then published a critical article about her in the Independent newspaper.
Payout: Peter and Hazelmary Bull were found to have acted unlawfully by banning a gay couple from staying in their hotel
She is now appearing before a professional conduct panel of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy and faces losing her accreditation if she is found to have breached its rules.[...]
The ‘conversion’ therapy practised by Mrs Pilkington, 60, is held in contempt by gay lobby groups.
Mr Strudwick runs a campaign called the Stop Conversion Therapy Taskforce, and has said: ‘Every major mental health organisation in Britain and America is opposed to attempts to change someone’s sexuality. There is good evidence not only that it doesn’t work but that it is harmful.’
Mrs Pilkington has treated ten patients over the past decade using a programme called Sexual Orientation Change Efforts. She says that her gay son is among those she has been able to help.
Poor gay son. It must have been awful to grow up with that sort of mother.
Michael Jones at Change.org provides essential context to Pilkington’s sob story:
“We say everybody is heterosexual, but some people have a homosexual problem. Nobody is born gay. It is in the upbringing,” Pilkington told the Sunday Telegraph.
Ah, but therein lies a bit of a problem for Pilkington. That’s because her position that homosexuality is a problem rightly runs counter to ethical standards and codes of conduct put forward by the British Association for Counseling and Psychotherapy (BACP). This week, the BACP will determine whether or not to strip her of her psychotherapy credentials.
They should.
Pilkington is entitled to hold whatever religious beliefs and principles she wants. But by championing and practicing the destructive concept of “conversion therapy,” she’s violating in very clear terms the mission statement and objectives put forward by the BACP for its accredited psychologists.
Exactly.










Kenneth– what a weak thing your faith must be.
I feel sorry for you when it is REALLY tested.
Geez. 50 songs could make me a straight Bible-believer. Sweetheart, does your ballon ever land?
Tra la la la la
I’m not judging
Tra la la la la
I’m not budging
Tra La La la la
Look, no fudging
Tra la la la la
Use my Bible as a cudgeon.
That kind of song? Brian, there’s no baloon here, just some hot air.
Running scared from the possibility of finding a moment of sincerity and openness to the Divine Creator, the Lord God Almighty is His name?
50 tracks won’t kill you. Maybe try starting with:
I NEED YOU TO LOVE ME – by BarlowGirl
or
GET BACK UP – by Toby Mac
in fact try all 10 on the first page, then another 40. See what happens.
LINK:
http://www.biblecool.com/Bible_Cool/SONGS_1.html
Kenneth, any kind of god who would eternally torture innocent harmless people is a god I’d spit on before I’d bow down to his evil.
Answering my challenge to you wouldn’t kill you either.
But you didn’t.
Kenneth, you’re very naive.
You assume that there are not Christians here, and that no good Christian could possibly decide that being gay was just fine. We’ve all of us heard this extra special message, over and over. your spiritual arrogance is hardly a new song on your top 50 Christian blather parade. Some of us are Christians, and devout followers of their faith. Clearly, they disagree with you on this.
Who died and appointed you Elvis, in charge of deciding that your relationship with Jesus is the real and good one, and all of the people here are false believers.
Actually, I do know who died. So do you, and he was quite clear about the need to avoid judging other people. He is also quite capable of deciding his relationship to other Christians without your advice or approval. Are you so sure that you are saved? And if you are not so sure, then what the hell are you doing here?
All of us are sinners, honey, but only some of us are throwing stones.
Wow, Kenneth, it’s been an amazing afternoon! As you suggested, I listened to all the songs on your website, and I’m already a changed person! I can’t thank you enough for taking the time to share the truth of God’s Word, and the facts and statistics about homosexuality. I had never been aware of that information, and it really opened my eyes. My response was astounding – I immediately fell to my knees right in front of my computer, and cried out to God for forgiveness and deliverance from homosexual temptations. I feel certain that I was suddenly Saved. Thank you!!!
Some people will attack you by pointing out that, throughout history, other despised groups of people, such as Jews and racial/ethnic groups, were persecuted with the help and backing of dishonest writings and Biblical references. But homosexuality truly is different. You need to maintain your resolve to keep standing up for the truth. You will labeled a bigot, but always remember, you have principles on your side.
When I told my partner of nearly thirty years (I called him at work) about these revelations, he was devastated. But I told him how much God loved him and then I shared with him the Good News of Jesus Christ. I pointed out how God loves us so much that He wants us to be lonely and miserable for the rest of our lives – for His glory (and to be spared from His eternal punishment).
Then I prayed and asked God if He would change us to heterosexuals, He said: “No, I haven’t learned how to do that yet, and until I do, you will just have to be celibate or, if you are a skilled liar, pretend to be heterosexual. (and don’t worry about lying – I’ve redefined it as Absolute Truth) Many thousands of men have faked it by deceiving women into marrying them, and you can too. In my kingdom the proper role of women is to serve men, so by deceiving them into marriage, you are gifting them a special opportunity to serve your need to stay away from homosexuality. Remember, It’s all for my glory (and to be spared from my Eternal Punishment Program).”
God is so good, and so faithful! Praise Him!
Yes Elvis is in the video:
http://www.biblecool.com/Bible_Cool/HOW_TO_BE_SAVED.html
I have preached many times that because he truly understood the word “grace” he might yet have been saved at the last moment. His mother and father met in a Pentecostal church.
As for Priya Lynn’s comment, if you praise its paradise, for all those who praise in truth believe in truth, if you blaspheme without repentance God will give your mind eternal distraction from it.
The reason I wrote here was to defend Lesley Pilkington. She is guilty only of common sense. Her critics seem to think homosexuals can enter paradise still lusting after the angels of God (like the men in Genesis 19) subdue their desires eternally, and be saved while still crawling with everlasting unnatural lust. To be saved a homosexual must REPENT, and so CEASE to be a homosexual as their sin is changed by “the renewing of your mind”. Either that or they are openly professing something more obvious: she is being victimised by atheistic secularists with a HIDDEN agenda to attack the Christian Faith. It is like an England supporter being put on trial by a jury of Argentinian fans.
A homosexual Christian is like saying “a pacifist bomber pilot” or “a meat eating vegetarian”. It is clear they do not believe the bible, as both the New Covenant and Old Covenant scriptures stand firm against homosexuality.
Kenneth said “As for Priya Lynn’s comment, if you praise its paradise, for all those who praise in truth believe in truth, if you blaspheme without repentance God will give your mind eternal distraction from it.”.
I’m not really following you there Kenneth, but what I can say is that the truth is found by looking at the evidence and then drawing conclusions from that. You haven’t attempted to find the truth Kenneth, you’ve decided before looking at the evidence what you want to be the truth – you’ve prejudged. If you look at the evidence Kenneth you’ll see there is no evidence whatsoever for the existence of your god despite millions of people desperately searching for millenium for it. Your god doesn’t exist Kenneth, you’re speading evil because of a myth, you’re wasting the only life you’ll ever have, living it for according to the whims of bronze age bigots pretending to be a god. Don’t waste your life Kenneth, seek reality, don’t be controlled by an an imaginary man in the sky.
Y’all, Kenneth is fighting his own personal war on parody, just let him go.
Kenny, honey, you’re being incredibly deluded and naive.
The days of my singing Onward Christian Soldiers as the butch antidote for my need to exclaim I Feel Pretty (and witty and GAAAAAAY) are long over.
I stayed in the church for as long as I did because of the singing. The trance-inducing, ecstatic, hypnotic, comforting sensation of singing with a crowd. The words didn’t matter to me so much then…
…until I started paying attention to the self-loathing of lines like “saved a wretch like me” or the self-pitying wallow of “just as I am without one plea” or the irrational paranoia of being left behind “I wish we’d all been ready.”
Your list is, like the musical expressions of a lot of conservative Christianity, trite.
So granted, you’ve got S&G Bridge Over Troubled Water, but what makes that a good song is that it can be understood in more ways than just your creepy Jesusy one. Rodgers and Hammerstein’s You’ll Never Walk Alone, same story. Too bad you didn’t also pay attention to another great musical of theirs, South Pacific. You could learn a lesson or two about tolerance from You’ve Got To Be Carefully Taught. Clearly you have been (and I most emphatically DO NOT mean that as a compliment).
You demonstrate a lack of understanding of the difference between metaphor and reality. Your choice of music contains song after song that repetitively bleats one narrow, literalistic interpretation of ancient stories that were never meant to be understood as actual HISTORY, but rather commentary on the human condition. With a lot of misunderstanding of the same blended for good measure.
Why isn’t the Brahms Requiem on your list? Is it because his choice of biblical texts is too vague to communicate the judgment you so happily pronounce here? Brahms’ artistry actually elevates those words to something that convey something of the loss, the love, the hope, the respite we all want/need when we have lost someone dear. Even for an atheist like me.
Why isn’t Rent on your list? If ever there was a portrayal of the transformative, redemptive, healing power of love, this is it – set by one of the most brilliant musical minds of our generation. Could it be because it shows gay lives as ultimately human and worthwhile?
Why isn’t Shostakovich’s 5th Symphony on your list? Here is one of the most soulful expressions of human experience, written in defiance of of Stalinist censorship (“you want me to rejoice? Fine, I’ll rejoice”)
Why not Beethoven 9? Written in total deafness and yet to this day one of the most heroic statements of hope and joy…
Why not Dave Brubeck’s Mass or Paul Winter’s Solstice? Why not the settings by Randall Thomas, or Thomas Tallis? Why not Cyndi Lauper’s True Colors? Why not Josh Groban’s Hidden Away? Why not the Beatles’ Hey Jude or Let it Be?
I’ll tell you why. Because you insist the Bible be interpreted as if it were historical fact, rather than the METAPHOR it actually is. Because, as Spong says, you think the correct question of the Bible is “did it happen?” when in actuality, the authors meant for you to ask “what does it mean?”.
And you think your little plate of stale jelly beans will satisfy my soul?
Was busy composing my rant when you posted, Evan. I agree with you.
Evan– i gave him an opportunity to win the War on Parody, and he chose to fight yet another battle.
congratulations Kenneth. you just lost another soul to your own lack of responsibility. You are really going to burn for that one.
Last chance, Kenneth. read #58 again.
All of us are sinners, honey, but only some of us are throwing stones.
Uh oh. We got two of us calling him honey.
Can homo-marriage be far behind?
BTW Brian, your musical ocmments were bang on. i had the same idea,but lacked the clarity of expression. My line was going to be: “My tastes run to Brahms, Strauss, and finzi, not ecclesiastical oatmeal.”
Damn.
Hmmm, a multiple-partner homo-marriage…
“ecclesiastical oatmeal” – love it!
Thanks, Ben, it was the music educator in me that got going… Great Art changes lives, not Pablum.
small music for small minds– what can you say?
It’s why high culture is dying in this country– it’s way to difficult.
London has 5 major symphonies and two opera companies. New york has one of each.
Brian said, “Great Art changes lives, not Pablum.”
With respect to religion, that’s why I always say
I find the trappings enthralling,
and the substance appalling.
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