Atlanta ex-gay activist D.L. Foster has a history of racially insensitive commentary, as well as affiliation with some people of questionable integrity. Now he is accused of some racist comments on Facebook.
James Troia participated in the following exchange with Foster on David Tyree’s Facebook page. Troia says the exchange, which he considers racist, occurred at about 9:30 a.m. yesterday.
D.L. Foster initiated the conversation with this statement:
Its really interesting and ironic that white people (the ones whose foreparents enslaved black folk) are the first ones to try to correct black folk (the ones whose foreparents were enslaved by their white slavemasters) on ‘prejudice’ and ‘intolerance.’ Correct your own family before you bark at me.
Were the replies racially insensitive? You be the judge.
Here are additional excerpts written by Foster:
Why are you so upset if this doesn’t apply to you? Guilty dogs bark loudest.
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White racists always trying to cover up their evil by accusing others.
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Oh time to move on now huh? Thats what you want black folk to do, forget about hundreds of years of slavery and murder? Just… move… on huh? Typical of white slave owner descendants.
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And that’s your problem that youre a latina jackass. Personally I think you should have kept that to yourself
If Foster’s statements were less sweeping and absolute, some of them might reflect valid concern about white hypocrisy. But he directs his accusations primarily at a commenter, Nadith Schuster Werth, who happens to be Latina and non-LGBT. Furthermore, the commenters show little sign of overt racism; Foster is blaming them for the sins of their alleged great-great-grandparents.
In an e-mail message to Truth Wins Out, Foster acknowledged the exchange.
Oh yes, I said all that and meant it. Since you have the “screenshots” its all there. The race (slavery) issue was first raised over and over again on David Tyree’s “fan” page by white anti-Tyree posters. Go to the page and look. My comment(s) was in response to those accusations against David Tyree by white folk who incidentally repeatedly called him a plethora of profane names. No “outrage” about that.
As a black man whose foreparents were enslaved by whites in this county, I do think it odd and curious that whites —whose foreparents were the initiators, purveyors and defendants of the degrading and dehumanizing institution of slavery in America for almost a century—would be chastising a black man (as if he is still some sort of uppity field hand) about racism and slavery. Many black gays have spoken out about white gay racism which openly exists both in the gay community and is apparently immediately foisted upon the larger black community once a black man or woman speaks out against homosexual marriage. No “outrage” about that either.
One woman who claimed to be latina (Schuster Werth?) seemed to be the angry point man and probably thinks she will get 15 seconds of internet fame for “exposing” me. I say go for it and enjoy the faded glory. Perhaps, she sees me, like David Tyree, as another uppity nigger who got out of his place. So, per her, we should just “move on” and get over it.
I deleted the post(s) and removed myself from that forum to start a supportive page for David Tyree and Biblical marriage to which Im very proud to say is growing daily.
Foster claims to be the victim of white commenters, but Nadith Schuster Werth recalls the situation differently. She told Truth Wins Out:
The “conversation” started around 8 or 9am on 6/22. I had responded to his post claiming that White folk (whose forefathers owned slaves) have no business trying to educate black folks (whose forefathers were enslaved) on prejudice and intolerance. I responded by questioning why we can’t call him out on his hypocrisy. That’s when he started on his tirade about my forefathers being slave owners. I explained to him that I’m a Latina and my family wasn’t even in this country at that time. He then made the snide remark that being Latina was MY problem and I never should have mentioned it. I asked him twice to explain that comment and he never did. Just kept deflecting and calling me a white slave owner supporter. WTF?? Because I suggested that we need to move on and can’t live in the past. I never said forget our country’s sordid history of slave ownership. We must never forget in order to not repeat such atrocities but must move on and make it better for all. Logic is lost on that hateful “man” of God.
Despite the deletion of this conversation, David Tyree’s Facebook page remains peppered with incendiary comments from other sources.
Whatever the surrounding bedlam may have been, one responsibility of a public figure — especially a minister — is to rise above the fray. Foster’s characterization of others as “dogs” and “jackasses” renews my concern about his temperament and about his motivation for pressuring people into ex-gay therapy.
Foster’s comments in the Facebook exchange are consistent with a recent article which he wrote equating “progay clerics” with racists and slaveowners. And the comments are consistent with Foster’s past conduct. Starting soon after I first encountered him in 2003, Foster accumulated a record of unfortunate vitriol. This record was collated by Timothy Kincaid, who now writes for Box Turtle Bulletin. Keep in mind that this is not just a random antigay civilian commenting; it is a leader within Exodus Global Alliance and one of the nation’s best-known “ex-gay” pastors:
About the blog Ex-Gay Watch and its writers, Foster wrote:
“XGWers” sit around like a bunch of gossiping sissies, oops queers, disparaging people and their lives, wetting your pink panties laughing at the death of good men and mocking the faith of Christians who disagree with you. BUT when you get an ounce of xlax you fall apart. Typical for a hen house.
On gay pride and the “all the people”Do you think ancient Sodom held gay pride parades? I think they did. Everyday. Regardless of how long this has been going on, it is still very strongly considered unnatural behavior. Thousands of years of social standards have excluded homosexuality from acceptable sexual activity… Millions of Americans are sick and disgusted at having to endure what they believe is an affront to God Almighty… I want to be the first to applaud the President for cutting off the flow of official recognition for such a shameful, political spectacle. This is what I call being President of all the people.
On gay pride and “all the people”:
Do you think ancient Sodom held gay pride parades? I think they did. Everyday. Regardless of how long this has been going on, it is still very strongly considered unnatural behavior. Thousands of years of social standards have excluded homosexuality from acceptable sexual activity… Millions of Americans are sick and disgusted at having to endure what they believe is an affront to God Almighty… I want to be the first to applaud the President for cutting off the flow of official recognition for such a shameful, political spectacle. This is what I call being President of all the people.
On antigay murders and beatings in Jamaica:
I have written before that so called homophobia is a justified reaction…In his powerfully written argument published in the Jamaica Gleaner, Dr. Leachim Semaj says “I take issue with the recent discussion describing Jamaican people who see homosexuality as dysfunctional or deviant as being sick people. This is what is done when one subscribes to the concept of “homophobia”…Dr. Semaj who has written for major outlets internationally, is on point with his commentary.
In 2006, Foster penned this article equating Truth Wins Out founder (whose family is Jewish) with a Nazi Final Solution. As a result, Exodus president Alan Chambers distanced his organization from Foster. Foster remained unapologetic.
That same year, Foster was hosted at an “ex-gay” conference organized by the virulently homophobic Bishop Eddie Long, who this month settled lawsuits filed by four young men who accuse Long of sexual abuse.
In 2008, while affiliated with Exodus Global Alliance, Foster advocated an ironic form of Christian anti-ministry, asserting that pastors should not refer people to Exodus International in the United States until it disavowed respectful interaction with sinners, such as that exemplified by ex-gay group leader Wendy Gritter. In other words, ministry isn’t valid if you actually, umm, minister to people.
In 2009, Foster launched a bizarre play that promoted “freedom” from homosexuality by trashing gay life. Southern Voice, a now-defunct Atlanta LGBT publication, said that “Once Upon a Dream,” liberally used the words “faggot,” “queer” and “abomination” in a negative way. The play was scheduled at the 14th Street Playhouse in Atlanta’s gay Midtown neighborhood.
Three months ago, Foster blasted Chambers for not being clear enough that all gay people are damned to hell.
Foster doesn’t seem to associate much with mainstream Christian pastors or leading antigay activists — or perhaps they don’t associate much with him? Foster seeks out the fringe: He defends Eddie Long’s alleged sexual abuses as a mere personal moral failing; misdiagnoses Eddie Long’s problem; he seeks counsel with Michael Brown; he describes the gay-tolerant third of American Christianity as a “disease“; and he demonstrates less interest in stopping antigay genocide in Uganda than in stopping Africa’s homosexuals.
Much as I sometimes prefer to ignore the fringe in the hope that they will go away, Foster has demonstrated staying power. Incitement and incendiary behavior remain effective means of drawing support, and of perpetuating the anti-ministry “ministry” industry.













wow… I mean… really… wow.
This guy has no moral comprehension about ANYTHING! He is so infused with hatred and constant bitterness that he is living in his own little world, and we are just aliens to him.
This guy’s racism is digusting. But I do need to point out that you posted a link to a post from Derrick that quoted you. This gentlemen spouts some of the same thing about white gay bloggers he doesn’t like as well as Pam Spailding. We need to call those out on our side who does the same instead of giving them exposure on here.
the only (and I mean ONLY) good thing about this guy is that he is such a loon that even other anti gay activists (“rev” ‘let me help you take your underwear off as we pray’ Long being one of the main exceptions) around Atlanta distance themselves from him, and make comments about how he is “out there” and ‘we dont approve of that kind of language about people’…etc. etc.
He is a joke. A bad one, and one that hurts people, but a joke nonetheless
Dang! I’ve never even heard of this screeching harpy, but he sounds crazier (and more dangerous) than even people like Gallagher and LaBarbera. Foster claims to be ‘ex-gay’, he must be one really sexually frustrated Miserables! Also, his ‘knowledge’ of history is sadly deficient too. He said no society ever approved of homosexual behavior. I guess he never heard of ancient Greece and Rome and probably others (including Native American tribes). There is also evidence that in the earliest days of Christianity, not only were gays accepted, they were actually *married* and yes dumbo foster there is historic documentation to back that up.
I have many concerns about Foster, but the one that sends shivers to my core, is the ‘ male retreats’ he hosts, I don’t know what happens at them, but I want to know.
*waving hands wildly*
Hey I am a Christian, Baptist Minister, African American and straight ally to the GLBTQ community and I need your support. So much focus is placed on the Rev. DL Fosters of this world as people like me are waiting to be that voice of equality. I am here and I am ready to work!!!!!
@Gerald YAY! We like you, then! Help us out whenever you can ;)
@Evan I have been speaking out against Religious Based Heterosexism and Homophobia in the Black Church and beyond for the last 4 years. I am here :)
Gerald, you’re hired! I was really uneasy about writing this article.
@Michael, like you I am uneasy. This whole David Tyree is bringing race into this issue and if we don’t watch out it can be one that continues to divide us.
My whole exchange with Mr. Foster, refuse to call him pastor, made me pitty him and others like him. He is genuinely convinced that he is doing the right and moral thing in the name of God and that disgusts me. I am not a religious person by any means but I’m also not an atheist. I was brought up with spirituality and not dogma. My grandmother who I adored, was a Catholic and loved God. However, she never taught me to hate others because of how they chose to love. She didn’t understand it nor did she necessarily agree with it. However, she never judged nor turned away those chose a different path than hers. Rather, she looked towards a person’s character and their sincerity in deciding if they were worth her time. I really want to get back to that spiritual side of me but have to be honest that most organized religion makes me run the other way.
Whoaa, this guy sounds truly horrible.
You people do not know pastor Foster. He does not hate Gays! But the good thing is that I see that his ministry raises an eyebrow with you people and is a direct threat to your agendas. Thus, you use words like “hate” to slant the views of others. Unfortunately for you, his ministry is growing!
Then you lie and say that he supports Eddie Long! What? Are you that desperate that you have to lie to get people to get on your side. Wow! Hopefully, people who really want to know the truth and have an open mind about people who have a different opinion that yours will see through these lies!
Mike, DL Foster’s hate speaks for itself – its obvious to any but the most deluded anti-gay bigot, such as yourself. Foster’s “ministry” most certainly isn’t growing, even everyday anti-gay bigots are distancing themselves from him. He is such a pariah one can’t even get to his web site through google.
Mike, I have re-read this article, which I previously misunderstood, and I stand partially corrected.
This article better represents Foster’s opinion of Eddie Long.
Foster still appears to believe that Long’s main problem is his homosexuality, and not Long’s willingness to abuse or exploit his followers.
Well what you just said is proof that all this is just speculations and lies. I have proof that his orginization is growing. You can even go to face book and see the people that have come out of homosexuality and found him and been added to his group “Overcomers”. That number increases everyday! Now that there are so many, he has stepped up his orginization. THAT….is FACT! as far as him being a bigot…well you might want to look up the definition of that word. Yes, I humbly respect the fact that you took ownership of your comments about him and Eddie Long. However, you are still somewhat incorrect because he does NOT believe that Homosexuality is the only thing wrong with Eddie Long. How do I know? Well, in the orginization hundreds of us, including Pastor Foster talked about this on several occassions. As a matter of fact, I thought that Pastor Foster was so critical of Eddie that, I myself thought he had went to far. he let Eddie HAVE IT! But he is willing to forgive him. But he is very VOCAL about his actions (Eddie Long) and integrity to the church! But when you string together your words it misleads your audience in to thinking otherwise! That is deception!
Christians and Muslims have very different beliefs and both a strong in their prinicples. However, neither creed authorizes hate. Just because Pastor Foster has a different belief than you do does not mean he HATES you! But I see this word used continuously in the Gay agenda to deceive many!
Mike, I appreciate your passion, but your shouting (exclamation points) and your strawman statements exemplify my overall point: Foster has issues with temperament.
Definitions of “hate” vary.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hatred
Well this is not Foster…this is Mike! And if using an exclamation point takes away to you the value of what was stated…then I am sorry for you! I have not called you a name like bigot…lied or lied on you! But you have done that to this man. If the statements are so strawman, then why cant you address them? It seems that when you did last, you were in error! God bless!
The fact remains that you just told a group of lies on a man to promote your agenda!
Mike, I’m still waiting for you to specify what “lies” were told. Eager to hear back from you with details, and evidence (via hyperlinks) to the contrary.
DL Foster is a despicable hater. He drew a Hitler mustache on my photo. I am Jewish. Foster is a sick, reprehensible bigot with more issues than a New York magazine stand. He is a disgrace.
Mike said “Christians and Muslims have very different beliefs and both a strong in their prinicples. However, neither creed authorizes hate. Just because Pastor Foster has a different belief than you do does not mean he HATES you!”.
When a person hates a group of people he tries to harm them; deny them equal rights, supports imprisoning them for harmless actions, tells them they are evil. This is what DL Foster does, you may lie to yourself and say this is not hate but his actions are indistinguisable from someone who does hate gays – there is no difference.
Mike said “The fact remains that you just told a group of lies on a man to promote your agenda!”.
You wouldn’t know a fact if it bit you on the a*s. The statements made here are true and that truth is demonstrated by Foster’s own hateful racist words.
Our agenda is not to be fired from our jobs, or evicted from our homes for who we are. Our agenda is to not be assaulted, bullied, or murdered for who we are. Our agenda is to have the same rights as everyone else. Our agenda is noble and just.
Foster’s and your agenda is to convince people gays are evil, that they are deserving of eternal torture thus justifying whatever brutality people might choose to impose on innocent LGBT people. Your agenda, like the pigs you are is to deny an innocent group of people the same rights you have. Your agenda is to convince LGBT people to hate a core aspect of who they are and to live a life of lonliness and denial or deception and selfishness in a sham opposite sex marriage. Your agenda is pure evil.
I’m not convinced that Mike and Foster aren’t one and the same.
He drew a Hitler Mustache on your face? Now if he did that…that would be a hot mess! And I don’t agree with that!
I know fact because it is written there for you to see. Obviously you cant see…you even had to admit yourself that you misunderstood.
Just because you went down a list of what you think our agenda is does not make it so! What you have to understand is that you are not arguing really with me or Pastor Foster. You are really arguing with the WOrd and the principles behind it! You are really arguing with God! I did not put Romans 1:18-32 or 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 in the bible. It is so unfortunate that the scriptures are so plain that it forces mankind to make a decision to follow it or to walk away from it.
Its is kinda like the rich man and Jesus asked him to sell all he had and come follow me…and he turned away from Jesus. If you are sold out to this sexuality…you could not imagine turning away from it. Just as that rich man could not turn from his riches. Being rich was who he thought he was. But no one put a gun to his head and made him take the riches or puts a gun to someone’s head and makes them participate in homosexuality as a lifestyle. It is a choice that is made every day!
As I internalize you…walking away from homosexual activity would be like lying to yourself.
But the bible says…so a man thinkenth…that is who he is! If you believe that you are a homosexual and that is all you will ever be…then so be it!
I nor pastor Foster endorse violence against gays. That is as wrong as drawing a mustache on a jewish person. i do not believe that gay people are evil and God hates them. God hates the sin! I believe that no matter WHAT…EVENTUALLY GAY MARRAIGE WILL BE one day! There is nothing that will stop that! The bible says that in the last day’s men will be lovers of men.
What I believe that everything is being set up for Christ return. The law will no longer hinder you from making the certain decisions. YOu will be the one to make that decision. This will truly be the test if you are a follower of Christ. As a result of these ideologies…people are already turning away from the bible and Christ! And then there are those to hold fast to him. This is the great divide of mankind. I know where I stand!
So it is what it is. Be blessed!
That’s the DL Foster we all know and loathe. Here is the post where he characterized Besen as Hitler. Peruse the rest of the blog to get an idea of the real DL.
And yes, “Mike” sounds very much like him, and he has done the “log in under another name and defend himself” routine before. He’s a bitter, hateful little man.
Thanks for the link David. Wow. There is no Christian love in that post. Pure hate. The writing does sound very much like Mike’s posts.
Mike said “You are really arguing with the WOrd and the principles behind it! You are really arguing with God!”.
No, haven’t heard the slightest peep out of your imaginary god, it’s solely been you and Foster that have been spouting the bigotry, its solely you I’m arguing with.
Mike said “But no one put a gun to his head and made him take the riches or puts a gun to someone’s head and makes them participate in homosexuality as a lifestyle.”.
But you threaten gays with eternal torture, you in essence put a gun to the head of gay christians, you try to force them not to be who they are – that’s extremely unethical.
Mike said “If you believe that you are a homosexual and that is all you will ever be…then so be it!”.
Nonsense. Even when a person is gay and knows it they are still parents, sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, architects, mathematicians, mechanics, role models, helping hands, a shoulder to lean on, and on and on. Knowing your gay most certainly doesn’t mean that is all one is.
Mike said “I nor pastor Foster endorse violence against gays. That is as wrong as drawing a mustache on a jewish person. i do not believe that gay people are evil and God hates them. God hates the sin!”.
You most certainly do endorse violence against gays. You believe people in a loving monogamous same sex relationship deserve to be eternally tortured, you endorse the most extreme and unlimited violence to gays that is conceivable. It is inconceivable that any god who would do this to a person feels anything other than total consuming unbridled blinding hatred towards gays. You claim your god hates the sin, but it is the sinner who he tortures. If your god hates the sin he would torture the sin, not the sinner. Your god obviously has unmitigated all consuming hatred of gays because he eternally tortures them for harmless acts of love and pleasure.
Mike
“It [homosexuality] is a choice that is made every day!”
So homosexuality is a choice, but heterosexuality isn’t a choice?
The only abomination I see here is DL Foster. It just isn’t natural to HATE like that!
Calling something a lie doesn’t make it so. Calling something love doesn’t make it so. Mike, no matter how much sugar you poor over it and no matter how insistant you are that it’s really chocolate, a pile of s**t will never be anything other than a pile of s**t. It is the same with your hatred. Calling people sick, evil, disgusting, perverted, deviant, and hellbound for something that harms no one and is outside of their control only comes from hatred. Trying to make it possible to fire us from our jobs or evict us from our homes for something that affects no one comes only from hatred. Forcing us to pay more taxes comes only from hatred. Keeping us from our spouses deathbeds comes only from hatred. Deporting our spouses comes only from hatred. Taking our children away from us comes only from hatred. Trying to get people who commit violent crimes against us off with a slap on the wrist at best comes only from hatred.
Before you try to use your bible as an authority first you have to prove that it has any. Prove God wrote it directly, either him/herself or by directly guiding the human authors. But even then, I question the mental fitness of anyone who bases morality on a bronze-age book that mandates slavery and says it’s perfectly fine for you to throw your virgin daughters to a mob for them to be gang-raped. Jesus said nothing of homosexuality, though he said plenty about hypocrites.
Could you name the time and place you chose to be heterosuxual? Because I can’t recall choosing to be gay.
No one has ever “walked away from homosexuality”. They have only walked away from being true to their nature to a life of misery, denial, and fraud. Your entire movement is based on one shoddy case that was never followed up on and was carried out through ritualized beatings that only resulted in a gay man with so many psychological problems that he made two suicide attempts in his life with the second one being successful before he even turned forty.
And yes we will be blessed regardless of your pathetic efforts to keep that from happening.
I’m kind of shocked by DL’s tirade on white slave-owners–I almost can’t believe it’s him. I’ve seen him be anti-gay, I’ve seen him be mean-spirited, just not in this way before. I’m actually beginning to feel some concern and compassion for him. Something is going on with him.
I once had anger toward DL Foster but now like Phil I have concern.
Man, if I have to prove to you the power of the Word of God…then m participation in this conversation is fruitless.
I proved that he lied! He even admitted that he made a mistake, sir!
Its pointless! Like I said, this issue is driving a huge wedge between people that believe and people who dont!
Lastly, I doubt Pastor Foster drew hitler mustache on anyones face!
But hey….carry one! God bless!
Mike said “Man, if I have to prove to you the power of the Word of God…then m participation in this conversation is fruitless.”.
Exactly, because you can’t prove an imaginary being has power.
Mike said “I proved that he lied!”.
Where’d you prove that? I see no such proof.
Mike
Thank you for answering my and RainbowPhoenix’s question about heterosexuality being a choice, and when you chose it.
Mike, it is you who are lying. “Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor”. But hypocrisy is like breathing to you child-murdering bigots.
Mike is an idiot in denial. The picture of Wayne with the hitler mustache is right on Festering Foster’s website; and it’s not even a very good one. The picture makes Wayne look more like guido on Jersey Shore than the Fuehrer.
sex·u·al·i·ty –
involvement in sexual activity.
an organism’s preparedness for engaging in sexual activity.
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You you envolve yourself in hetero or homo sexual activity…it is a choice and it is not forced upon you!
It is just that simple!
I had no idea I was talking to a group of people that dont even believe in God.
So Mike, I’m sure you can tell us when you chose to be straight. And your ASSumptions about our beliefs in God reveals your prejudice and sense of entitlement. Some of us believe. Some of us don’t. Either way, it’s irrelevent in matters of civil law.
Ok, Mike, to be more specific, when did you choose to be attracted to the opposite sex, to have feelings for women? (I’m not asking when you chose to be engaged in the sexual activity – even kissing – part – that’s a different question. :-) )
I believe in God. I just have questions that Christianity and the Bible can’t begin to answer.
Hi, I wrote response #34 above. Since then, I emailed DL Foster and got back the following response:
“Re the ‘racism’: I think the ‘evidence’ presented (the fb conversation screenshots) speaks for itself. My comments were specifically directed at the white posters on David Tyree’s fan page. I didnt see any black folk making those accusations. I posted because they were repeatedly chastising David Tyree over slavery and racism issues. One person engaged me. A woman with sort of a German-Austrian sounding name. I mean her name didnt sound latin to me and it didnt matter cause I wasnt referring to latin people. I told her that if what I was saying didnt apply to her, just back out of the conversation. She revealed she was “latina” and the way she worded it looked like she was saying “Im a latina jackass”. (She actually was calling me a jackass), but the way it read looked like she was calling herself that. She tried to turn my response into racism. It was no more racist than there are green men on jupiter. As I said to TWO guy, if she wants to get some faded glory out of it, have at.”
DL and I had a friendship that spanned three years until he and I had a falling out–my views on homosexuality and Christianity liberalized and his views did not change. I felt hurt, angry, and rejected that he severed our friendship and I’m only now beginning to put that to rest. But over the years, I never knew him to be racist in his treatment of me (I’m white), either before or after our break. DL is confrontational and in-your-face to be sure, and he’s not afraid to use racial analogies that some (including me) might consider extreme or contrived, but I don’t believe in my heart that he is a racist.
I take him at his word that the “Latina jackass” exchange was a misunderstanding. He ran with it to be sure, but that’s his personal style. When I wrote back to him, I explained that not everyone who is Latina/o has a Hispanic-sounding last name. There were a lot of immigrants from other countries to Latin America over the years just as there have been to the U. S. I know DL has spent time in Puerto Rico and been well-received there and did not offend his gracious hosts.
It breaks my heart to see racial divides. I haven’t been able to locate the David Tyree thread that contained DL’s comments, but if there were white people there baiting Tyree because of his race (and I’m not saying that there were, because I didn’t read it), it was inappropriate. There are people with less than noble intentions who rejoice when racial issues divide the gay community, and it’s already divided too much. It’s time to put aside our differences, black or white, gay or straight, and unite.
Phil, thank you for your first-hand perspective on Foster. It makes a lot of sense.
I agree that it takes at least two to start a fight, and I wasn’t thrilled with some of his critics’ comments. My concern remains that Foster is a veteran minister, and he should know better.
And I absolutely agree with this:
“It’s time to put aside our differences, black or white, gay or straight, and unite.”
Phil:
DL should be severely judged for his personal style. It is the essence of who he is as a human being and how he relates to the world. He is basically a despicable, unglued person who sullies the debate and degrades any conversation he enters.
The only good thing I can say about this man is that he is Exhibit A in highlighting the anger, bitterness, lunacy, and frustration that often defines the phoniness of the “ex-gay” experience.
What a sad person and a warning why no one should go down his path.