I was doing a bit of research this morning and I stumbled upon a “Quack Classic” by Dr. Joseph Nicolosi, co-founder of the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH). In a book he co-wrote with his wife Linda Nicolosi, “A Parent’s Guide to Preventing Homosexuality,” he opines:
I have also seen this same intense fascination with neutered or genderless cartoon characters. One father told me that his son, who is now involved in homosexuality and is refusing to consider change, had a boyhood fascination with Bozo the clown. At the time his parents thought it was cute, even if a little strange. But he held onto the obsession until the age of twelve. The truth is, these obsessive interests are boys’ attempts to lose themselves in a fantasy world where they can imagine themselves as something other than male and where the challenges of gender do not exist. (P. 67)
How does Dr. Nicolosi know that this is “the truth” and not some surreal theory he pulled out of his posterior? And aren’t most forms of entertainment attempts to lose oneself in a fantasy world — such as watching sports, going to the movies, drinking beer, watching television, or playing video games?
Here is the truth: When one reads such idiotic notions it is a reminder of why the entire field of “ex-gay” therapy should be easily dismissed and not taken seriously. Such therapy exists, not as science, but as a cynical public relations stunt designed to trick people into thinking the medical field echos the opinions of fundamentalist Christians on homosexuality.
However, the more one reads about the techniques and ideas espoused by “doctors” like Nicolosi, the easier it is to see through the nonsense. So-called Reparative Therapy is a joke perpetuated by religious individuals playing doctor who obviously have psychological disturbances and severe sexual hangups. The bizarre ideas they come up with prove that they are on the wrong side of the couch and are in serious need of professional help.
This is the same buffoonish book where Nicolosi tells fathers that “The experience of taking showers together has the potential to strengthen a boy’s identification with his father and his father’s masculinity, as well as with his own male anatomy.”
To bolster his position, Nicolosi quotes Dr. George Rekers, the infamous quack who got caught taking a young male escort to Europe that he met on Rentboy.com:
If the son repeatedly touches his father’s privates every time they take a shower together, Dr. Rekers advises the father to say, “I don’t mind if you look at my penis, because I’m your dad and seeing what my grownup penis looks like helps you learn how your body will grow up to be like mine. But now that you’ve already touched it to see what it’s like, I need to teach you that we guys don’t touch each other’s penises — unless we’re a doctor examining a patient or a parent giving a little boy his bath or checking if a boy needs medicine if he complains his private parts hurt or itch. Furthermore, the father should explain that when a boy touches his own penis, he should do so in private.” (P. 187)
This creepy claptrap is what “reparative therapy” is all about. These are the pathetic products and wacky ideas that PFOX, JONAH, and Exodus International have been peddling to clients for years.
And they wonder why they are laughed at and mocked by thinking society. But such tomfoolery masquerading as science is fully deserving of scorn and belly laughs. Clearly, “ex-gay” activists are not serious people and they promote almost child-like, superstitious notions on human sexuality that must be confronted and dismissed by the modern world.
Here is Nicolosi spewing more unscientific trash, such as a trauma, sexual abuse, or a distant father can turn boys gay. Or maybe it is an older brother good at sports that makes the timid younger brother gay. It is important that people realize that no mainstream, credible scientific organization in the world supports Nicolosi’s carackpot ideas.
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Wow. Just wow. First they think that men touching each other’s bodies will somehow cure homosexuality and now they’re promoting borderline incest. I thought these sexual perversions were supposed to be part of the Homosexual ‘agenda’.
It is borderline creepy, but it also is exactly what I would say to my son, if I had one, had he touched my penis during a shower THE VERY FIRST TIME HE DID SO. Of course, wHen I used to take showers with my dad, tHe last thing I would have thought of was touching hIs or mine. That’s where this gets creepy, and creepier still with the word repeatedly. We got a daddy with some odd boundaries, or lack of same. But then, in a world where George Rekers or Richard Choen or Nicolosi can be called doctors,
and the whole exgay cuddle industry not looked at askance…
Anything is possible
Whoa!
The second quote creeped me the hell out!
What are they on?
And of course an obsessive interest in a long haired dude from the bible, who, according to them, looks an awful lot like Brad Pitt, is A-OK.
I’m a pagan homosexual born and raised in San Francisco and I think those quotes are freaking creepy!
In light of Wayne’s article, Exodus might want to retract this endorsement:
“NARTH is an excellent professional, scientific, and therapeutic organization….that provides much research and many articles helping the lay person to understand some of the root contributing factors of same-sex attraction.” ~ Kristin J. Tremba, Exodus International
http://exodusinternational.org/2010/02/dispelling-the-myths-about-onebyone-and-exodus-international/
On a creep scale factor, I’d give this a 10.
Even though Exodus quietly removed NARTH books from its online bookstore a few months back, a quick review of the Exodus website will reveal many remaining links and endorsements of Nicolosi and NARTH.
This guff gets an AA+ rating for weird. It’s industrial grade. The answer for parents to “prevent” homosexuality is simple – Don’t Become Parents. Every time you conceive and birth a child, despite all the “excellent” advice you get from losers like this man, you open the door to the possibility of raising a gay child. It is truly so unfortunate that parents in this day still want to believe that there is something wrong with being gay. LOSE THE FEAR, you dummies, and you won’t have to look like idiots by looking to clowns like this man to take your money and do nothing to help you. Your fear is what drives this incredibly destructive business. You’re dealing with your child’s life and emotional stability here. Put yourself in your child’s place: would you, as a youngster, have wanted to learn from your parents that you were something not good and that YOU had to change so that THEY could be happy? YOUR happiness is their concern, but they have decided that THEIRS is more important. Besides, it’s easier for them to lay the guilt on you and put you through hell rather than being the adults and just love and care for you as the person you are. This is one major area where parents dispense with their parental responsibility and do more damage to their children than anyone else could.
Folks, here’s how to deal with the ‘problem’ of your kids being gay:
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Oh Good Grief! I have no words for these mumbo jumbo witchdoctors!
My apologies to all real witchdoctors!
None taken Tony but calling him a witchdoctor is a compliment to him.
Although we cunning folk tend to at the very least have some success even if it is just placebo effect. though I wonder how my life story would work out with his theories on causes of homosexuality though considering my mother wasn’t really around I wasn’t sexually abused and wasn’t the most timid of kids so on etc.
So Bozo makes kids gay, but not all gay kids ever saw Bozo — so what did they see? And what of gay kids before Bozo? Or Post Bozo (is Bozo still on TV? Beats me.) Meanwhile, these creeps are quite sure that our strong or weak fathers did or did not do something, and our strong or weak mothers did or did not do something, and other than that the “causes” of gayness are unknown or inexplicable, and we choose to be gay after being influenced to be gay, but no one knows why that either. Well, it’s quite confused, what these people believe, but at least they are selling a product that no one wants to buy. Other than that, it’s all very clear. Hahahaha!
Man, Nicolosi is creepy. I feel like I have to take a shower after reading what he has to say. Ewww. *shudders”
If he doesn’t like Bozo I shudder to think what he thought of Garfield Goose.
“But now that you’ve already touched it to see what it’s like, I need to teach you that we guys don’t touch each other’s penises — unless we’re a parent giving a little boy his bath or a doctor examining a luggage carrier or checking if a rentboy needs medicine if he complains his private parts hurt or itch.”
“And aren’t most forms of entertainment attempts to lose oneself in a fantasy world — such as watching sports, going to the movies, drinking beer, watching television, or playing video games?”
Ayup. And that doesn’t mean I wanna be an Elf, or go on a rollicking sword-and-sorcery adven- wait, YES I DO! And that’s what Skyrim is for.
Anyway, that has nothing to do with my orientation. I can’t think of any one thing (or even a combination of things) that “made” me bisexual. They made me aware of my orientation, yes, but didn’t push me one way or the other, and I rather dislike the implication that I was “turned”.
Oh, and @Robert, nah, this dude cranked the creepy up to 11 and then yanked off the knob.
(And I just realized how dirty that sounds. I’m sorry.)
Our local (county) library has a copy of one of his works, and I’m simply torn as to what to do. Bring it up with the librarian? County board meeting? I mean, the work is TRASH.
We, PFLAG Temecula and our allies are protesting the Rancho Community Church this Sunday. We are protesting peacefully against their “Same Sex Attraction Restoration Group” which they base on the Exodus model. Michael Bussee is trying to make it out to support us. Anyone in the area please drop by! Here’s their info, if anyone feels like checking or emailing them;
Website: http://rcc.tv/
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/ranchocommunity
Email: info@rcc.tv
Just hoping to get the word out. This abuse has to stop!
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