An important series of studies recently conducted by researchers in the U.S. and the U.K. lend credence to the long-held belief that homophobic people often harbor secret same-sex desires themselves. The results, which will be published in the April issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, indicate that “homophobia is more pronounced in individuals with an unacknowledged attraction to the same sex and who grew up with authoritarian parents who forbade such desire:”
“Individuals who identify as straight but in psychological tests show a strong attraction to the same sex may be threatened by gays and lesbians because homosexuals remind them of similar tendencies within themselves,” explains Netta Weinstein, a lecturer at the University of Essex and the study’s lead author.
“In many cases these are people who are at war with themselves and they are turning this internal conflict outward,” adds co-author Richard Ryan, professor of psychology at the University of Rochester who helped direct the research.
Four separate experiments, consisting of an average of 160 college students each, were conducted in the United States and Germany. Researchers asked subjects to report their own sexual orientation, then tested for discrepancies between participants’ self-identification and their reactions to “split-second timed tasks,” including association exercises in which they were asked to label specific words and images as “gay” or “straight:”
Before each of the 50 trials, participants were subliminally primed with either the word “me” or “others” flashed on the screen for 35 milliseconds. They were then shown the words “gay,” “straight,” “homosexual,” and “heterosexual” as well as pictures of straight and gay couples, and the computer tracked precisely their response times. A faster association of “me” with “gay” and a slower association of “me” with “straight” indicated an implicit gay orientation.
A second experiment, in which subjects were free to browse same-sex or opposite-sex photos, provided an additional measure of implicit sexual attraction.
Participants then were presented with a questionnaire that aimed to determine the kind of parenting they experienced during childhood. They were asked to agree or disagree with statements like: ”I felt controlled and pressured in certain ways,” and “I felt free to be who I am.” Additional questions were asked in order to gauge the level of homophobia in each subject’s childhood home.
Finally, the researchers measured the participants’ own homophobia, both conscious (via a questionnaire about “social policy and beliefs”) and unconscious (through the use of split-second word completion exercises). According to Science Daily, “the study tracked the increase in the amount of aggressive words elicited after subliminally priming subjects with the word ‘gay’ for 35 milliseconds.”
The results showed that the greater the discrepancy between a subject’s self-reported heterosexuality and their performance on the timed tests, the more likely that person was to display “a variety of homophobic behaviors, including self-reported anti-gay attitudes, implicit hostility towards gays, endorsement of anti-gay policies, and discriminatory bias such as the assignment of harsher punishments for homosexuals. . .”
They also corroborate a study conducted by Dr. Henry Adams at the University of Georgia in 1996, which concluded that men who are the most outspokenly homophobic are also the ones most likely to be aroused by gay pornography.
Researcher Richard Ryan suggests that his study’s results should cause viscerally anti-gay individuals to reflect on the possibility that they loathe gay men and lesbians because they see themselves in the very people they hate.
The study’s authors note that all of their research subjects were college students, and that future research on other age groups — both younger people still living at home and older people who’ve spent more time living independently of their parents — would be valuable in order to see whether the trends they’ve observed change over time.
Note to Weinstein, Ryan, et al: consider using the American Catholic bishops and Rick Santorum as test subjects for this future study. I have a sneaking suspicion that your findings will hold up extremely well in this particular group, and it would certainly explain an awful lot about the motivations behind their constant, compulsive anti-gay attacks.








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This includes “ex”-gays for sure. So obvious right?
I’m glad it said “many”. I grew up Southern Baptist, and for years I suppose you could have described me as a “homophobe” (because I believed what the Bible said about homosexuality/”man lying with man as with a woman” being a sin/abomination). But I grew up, met some gay people, started reading some gay blogs, talking to people who supported gay equality, and slowly but surely changed my views.
I still know some people (friends and family members) who *still* believe that homosexuality is a sin. They have no animus against gays in general, but they can’t (won’t) support equality due to their own beliefs. And yes, they are as straight as a ruler. :-)
Maybe it’s just my own hang-up, I don’t know, but it does make me angry when people assume that everyone who is anti-equality is a “self-loathing closet case”. It’s not true, it doesn’t have to be true… Just because it apparently is for a lot of people, that doesn’t make it true for all.
Thanks for letting me vent. I admire everything y’all do!
Gienna, if you label someone “sinful” for something that doesn’t hurt anyone, it comes from animus no matter how you try to dress it up. The “sin” title is just an excuse. And we assume homophobes are self-loathing closet cases because it so frequently turns out to be true.
My personal beliefs are as follows:
1) I don’t care who’s gay or straight, Christian, Muslim, or Buddhist, white or black, red, green or purple — you treat me with respect, tolerance, and kindness, and I’ll treat you likewise.
2) Anyone should have the right to marry whomever they want (as long as both parties are capable of giving legal consent), live where they want, and hold any job they want.
3) No one deserves to be bashed either physically or verbally because of sexual orientation, race, religion (Note: defending one’s position passionately is not bashing in my opinion, as long as it doesn’t devolve into name-calling on either side).
(These are just the main ones. :-))
I’ve known this for years. See, I love fooling around with “straight” dudes and, well, this whole homophobia thing they exhibit is like a beacon to let me know who might be down for some downlow. And I’m right about 98% of the time. It’s doubtful you’ll print this comment, but just wanted to say:
We know. :)
I remember a boy in H/S — he was about 8 months younger than I. When I was 15 and he was 14 and he somehow didn’t know I was gay (I’d come out at 14 — but I was popular so I stayed popular, it wasn’t a given back then)
So, without giving you details you don’t want, he loved to have me “satisfy” him — as often as possible, for over a year, until I mentioned something about being gay. When he found out I was gay (I never suggested he was, I just sort of assumed he was, you know), he freaked out completely. Ran off. Never spoke to me again. It got worse for him when he found out that EVERYONE knew and nobody cared in our smallish school. They didn’t know that he’d done anything with me, but they knew I was gay — and he couldn’t, absolutely could not wrap his brain around the idea that I was still one of the most popular kids in the school.
He apparently had been virulently homophobic, which I didn’t know, as a cover for being gay — from puberty on. The self-hatred and laceration was still continuing the last time I saw him, the day I graduated from H/S. It may still rule his life all these years later.
The researchers are right, Downlow Dean is right – but its all so sad.
Kind thoughts
What I don’t get, Glenna, is why religion is included in your list. It’s included in most people’s lists, of course, including that frisky little Amendment we all know and love. But why? Religious beliefs are just that – beliefs – opinions, as Bill Maher likes to point out. Why should your beliefs be exempt from discrimination? It’s not like you were born with them and can’t change them, like skin color, sexual orientation or gender (ok you can change your gender, but only with the most extreme effort). Shouldn’t we have the right to discriminate on the basis of something that people can freely choose, or freely choose to change?
That a great many homophobes are closet cases I accept, but all of them? THAT one I don’t buy.
Aside from the fact the broad brush, unqualified generalizations about people are so very often bullcrap, and given that almost any kind of person can be a hater, bear animus or have prejudices, I think the idea that all homophobes are closet cases is just a little too convenient for a lot of straight people these days: “It’s just f*gs against other f*gs, it doesn’t have anything to do with us.” So THEIR homophobia isn’t REAL homophobia, no matter how often they “jokingly” hassle one another about non-gender role correct behavior, use the word “gay” as the universal pejorative, or smirk at this or that stereotyped or real LGB characteristic.
Donny: I agree, which is why — even in the headline — I said “many,” not “all.” You’re commenting on something that I never actually said.
John, you’re assuming that I was replying to what you’d written rather than to others — though to be fair, I hadn’t said that I wasn’t replying to what you’d written either. Now maybe I’m wrong, but I was getting the sense that one or more of the other commenters here do believe all homophobes are closet cases (though I’d be very happy to find out that I’m wrong about that).
But beyond this blog, I’m hearing this assertion from ever more LGB people who should know better.
I don’t think most homophobes are closet cases. But the ones obsessed by the topic and the ones who drive the anti-gay and ex-gay industries likely are.
If one is constantly positioning themselves to be around gay issues, it is probably because they secretly want to enter that arena.
… or ‘go down that road,’ as one Marcus Bachmann likes to say…
@John Eisenhans I’m not saying religion can’t be discriminated against… a lot of people do. It’s not institutionalized, as racism was in the Jim Crow era, or as homosexuality has been until just recently (in some places/cases still is). Some folks hate the very idea of religion; some hate Christianity, Islam, Judaism, etc. People are free to hate whatever they want, and other people are free to tell them what a$$holes they’re being. :-)
Me, I love everyone regardless of race, religion, or sexual orientation. (The only way I’d ever say that I “hate” someone is if they did something to me or to someone else I love. And even then it wouldn’t be true hatred… more a loss of respect.) That’s what MY religion tells me to do — love my neighbor as myself and do to others as I’d have them do to me.
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