Reparative therapy, which seeks to “cure” homosexuality, is a destructive form of consumer fraud, where avaricious practitioners try to profit off their victims by instilling a deep sense of shame and guilt. There is not one shard of evidence supporting such efforts, while there is a long trail of blood and tears from the human casualties who bought into the lie that they were abnormal and needed to be converted into heterosexuals.
Traditionally, efforts to curtail this scam have focused on decreasing demand. Vividly highlighting the shattered lives and crushing heartbreak that results when people try to live a lie has helped keep some gay people out of such clinics. This is important because reparative therapists not only hurt their clients but they often upend the lives of spouses. These unfortunate individuals marry so-called “ex-gays” who mistakenly think they have been converted – but later find that their “progress” was a mirage brought on by wishful thinking and pressure from their therapist. This form of therapy also encourages clients to blame their parents for allegedly causing their homosexuality, leading to resentment, broken bonds, and the disintegration of previously close families.
With overwhelming evidence that reparative therapy is a fraud, legal organizations and legislative bodies are finally beginning to focus on cutting off the supply. In California, Sen. Ted Lieu (D-Torrance) introduced a bill that would prohibit children under 18 from undergoing “sexual orientation change efforts.” The measure would also require adults seeking such treatment to sign informed-consent forms indicating that they comprehend the possible dangers inherent with this kind of therapy, including depression and suicide.
Furthermore, The Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) sent a complaint last week to two professional psychiatric associations urging them to investigate the unethical use of conversion therapy by a Portland psychiatrist. The complaint was sent to the Oregon Psychiatric Association (OPA) and the American Psychiatric Association (APA) charging that the Portland psychiatrist unethically subjected Max Hirsh, a 22-year-old University of Oregon student, to conversion therapy.
It is difficult to understand why such quackery is still legal. The American Psychiatric Association claims, “The potential risks of reparative therapy are great, including depression, anxiety and self destructive behavior, since therapist alignment with societal prejudices against homosexuality may reinforce self hatred already experienced by the patient.”
Yet, despite the warnings, a handful of opportunistic therapists are still profiting from their clients’ pain and enriching themselves by trafficking in junk science. It is a pockmark on modern psychiatry and a disgrace to the medical profession that these quacks are allowed to operate in the 21st Century.
Reparative therapists should be stripped of their college degrees, expelled from professional associations, and banned from practicing. In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association declared that homosexuality is not a mental illness. So how does the American Psychiatric Association or the American Counseling Association or the American Psychological Association justify the existence of a rogue cottage industry that promises to heal people who are not sick and fix clients who are not broken?
At its core, reparative therapy is about making money off desperate and vulnerable people and confirming the religious worldview of the therapist, instead of helping the client. This was made clear by Charles Socarides, the late co-founder of the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), who once told the Washington Post: “Homosexuality is a psychological and psychiatric disorder, there is no question about it. It is a purple menace that is threatening the proper design of gender distinctions in society.”
Does this man sound like a serious practitioner that cares about his clients?
In lieu of respected doctors with scientific backgrounds, most reparative therapists are aggressive entrepreneurs with products to sell. Exhibit A is David Pickup, who until recently ran a counseling website that offered a $250 a month program called The Workout. Pickup described his con as “a unique program that helps a man who is dealing with homosexual issues to go deep and to understand that below the homosexual issues lies a lack of his own inherent masculinity.” Pickup now represents NARTH as an outspoken foe of the California bill. He said it would prevent therapeutic help to young rape victims with sexuality questions.
Pickup should be disbarred for wrongly conflating homosexuality with sexual abuse, deliberately confusing stereotypes with science, and falsely advertising that he has the ability to influence a client’s sexual orientation.
Psychological organizations need to stop trying to have it both ways. On one hand they claim that homosexuality is not a mental illness, while on the other hand they give a green light to ideological charlatans who treat gays as if they are pathological. This is an irrational and incoherent position that is not based on evidence, but cowardice. The mental health establishment’s leaders appear terrified that Rush Limbaugh or Focus on the Family might call them names if they ban this obvious form of malpractice. However, it is their solemn duty to “do no harm” and the false practice of reparative therapy is harm by definition.










Reparative therapy is itself sexual abuse, and its practioners and proponents are sexual abusers. That is a fact that needs to be made clear.
I disagree with the idea that exgay therapists are doing it
For the money. They are engaged in this for their own
Psychological motives.
Excellent article, Wayne. You are doing a super job of exposing the charlatans and keeping pressure on the responsible parties to take action. They need to get over their fear of Rush, FOF and the other hate mongers and do their jobs.
Jerry
Mike:
I agree with your assessment too. But some of these folks, like Pickup, is pushing product. I think money is a big factor in this, as well as the psychological issues you mention.
I say power. Judging by how they want anyone different from them to fell utterly miserable, they find control over everyone else’s lives to be intoxicating. Since said control is weakening, they are like addicts going through withdrawal symptoms, which could possibly explain the bizarre behavior of the major players in the homophobia scene. Of course, a little financial power on the side in the form of swindled money is always nice.
Therapists and coaches who have built their careers upon sadistic lies have too much at stake to admit that it’s all a fraud. They’d lose their income and the trust of their communities. Having committed malpractice for much of their professional lives, they wouldn’t know how to conduct therapy in an ethical fashion. So here, money really is a big factor. These frauds should indeed be de-credentialed — and perhaps charged with malpractice.
On the other hand, some ex-gay “ministry” leaders make limited money from their scam. Theirs is a labor of power, pride, and self-delusion.
Some ex-gay activists (ones in Oklahoma and Minnesota come to mind), whether they are profitable or not, enjoy the thrill of using political power to defame and damage other people and their families — and by damaging other people, they elevate themselves and deflect attention from their own lack of ethics.
Some of the not-so-profitable activists are less directly motivated by money and political power. They measure the strength of their faith (and any related emotional thrill derived from that spirituality) by how much purer they are than the ugly caricatures that they create about others. They project their own selfish will onto God, and determine that God wants them to be more famous, more liked among the fellow self-chosen, and more forgiving of themselves while still waging judgment and caricature against others.
And finally, some folks simply lie and deflect for obvious psychological reasons. They are in deep denial, and a constant stream of lies, denials, and diversions are necessary, every hour of the day, to maintain the phony salvation that they have envisioned for themselves within a hybrid religion that hates authenticity and fact. I don’t think many within this group gets rich doing therapy — their internal conflicts interfere with the ability to make the sociopathic sales pitches that we see among the truly successful — but this group of counselors is also the group that’s most likely to be acting inappropriately with clients (accosting or molesting patients) until they are caught and jailed. That’s another reason why reparative therapy should be banned: Besides the outright fraud, it also masks clinical sexual abuse.
oh I am sure he loves helping those men, right into bed and right on top of hm….lmfao…thanks Michael Airhart great post…thanks :-)
I willingly submitted to ex-gay/reparative/conversion therapy and I am lucky to be alive. The shame, self-loathing, internalized homophobia these groups tried to pass off as therapy and spiritual healing were damaging to say the least. I was often on the verge of or contemplating suicide. The power they possess in fundamental circles is mind-numbing. They help fundies control the masses while stifling the spirit. I thankfully found a spiritually welcoming group in a Metropolitan Community Church and started my process to real personal healing.
Your last paragraphed tells me you have an exaggerated idea about what influence psychological organizations have on general practices. The only power they have is to grant or deny membership in their association. Those who wish to engage in reparative therapie or other scams simply don’t apply for membership in any of these associations, leaving them free to do whatever they wish. They don’t “give a green light to ideological charlatans.” Other than denying them membership, there’s nothing these associations can do about it.
Bill, you may be right. But they could have more influence. And the California Psychiatric Association came out against this bill–they could certainly do more to police their own actions and that of their members.
Bill:
Far from exaggerating, I’m understating what they could do if they had the resolve and imagination to end this disgusting practice. There is no reason that they couldn’t declare that “Reparative therapy is not a form of therapy at all, but a dangerous ideology that foists guilt and shame on clients. There is no evidence that it works and significant evidence that it is destructive. Insurance providers should not cover any form of this practice. It should be banned in every state for clients under 18, since many LGBT youths are coerced into going and parents conned into taking their children due to the false promises and deceptive advertising by this industry. The media should understand that reparative therapists are outside the mainstream and soundly rejected as unethical and biased. Those practicing ex-gay therapy in any form should not be admitted to any legitimate medical or mental health association. We advise all courts to not allow NARTH members to testify at trials, for they are not experts on the subject of homosexuality. We strongly urge clients harmed by such therapy to speak out and inform people of their experiences.”
If this were racist “ex-black” therapy or taught minorities how to act like the majority — every psychological association would be up in arms lining up to speak out against it.
We should expect the same level of professionalism when it comes to speaking out against reparative therapy. It is total BS and everyone knows it. What is one good reason for it to continue?
NARTH says that clients should be able to reach their “heterosexual potential” and that they represent “client determination.” But homosexuals do not have heterosexual potential and clients cannot determine their sexual orientation. This seems more about income potential for reparative therapists and ideological determination than helping clients.
Wayne Besen, why do you not post the news about the new PFOX lawsuit? Are you afraid to let the truth win out? Haha!
Tell your readers, WackyWayne666! Tell them of how Quinlan and his army are now on the offensive against God’s enemies after crushing Wayne Besen and TWO! The Holy Spirit will bless this lawsuit and bring Quinlan to great victory to contrast his fate with the miserable failure of Wayne Besen!
Charles B:
What lawsuit are you referring to?
Chucky, why do you still feel the need to make things up? The previous lawsuit’s dismissal had nothing to do with the closet-case Quinlan’s truthfulness. If anything it was an acknowledgment of his lack of honesty that just said lying isn’t enough when the target is a public figure.
I agree, but we need a better term than “Reparative therapy” that is compatible with the professional medical terminology written and adopted in the DSM-V, which currently being worked on. This is the only practical way that any ban or legal damages could be enforced by a court of law or written into future legislation. Are there any insiders to the DSM-V process that can help make this happen?
Charles, when are you going to stop lying?
Why did you lie and say your imaginary god would not allow Wayne to file his lawsuit against Quinlan?
Is there a reparative therapy available that can help with Chucky B’s obsession with Wayne Besen?
Ah! Warm winds and hello, my Magrathean friend! Decided to crawl back out from under your rock again, I see?
A bit of advice. Next time you talk about lawsuits, make sure you have a credible source. Christian News Wire, being on the same level as World Net Daily, doesn’t qualify.
I don’t think so Ed, other than sending him back to outer space.
Are you so ignorant of God’s work, Wayne Besen? Do not worry, my friend! Charles will help you. Charles will give you the information about the victory of God’s representatives such as Greg Quinlan and Regina Griggs, who are both under the powerful anointing of the Holy Spirit.
http://www.christiannewswire.com/news/4457719716.html
http://pfox.org/complaint.html
I trust Quinlan to put up everything in the lawsuit, not just the complaint which is what you did. You knew that humiliating defeat was coming so you would not show all the papers! Just like you will not show all of the John Becker tapes! But PFOX has no such worries and will let the Lord’s work shine.
What did I JUST say about credible sources, Magrathean? You need more than an echo chamber to make something true, you know.
Also, do link to this “everything” you keep bringing up. I know I’m asking the impossible of your sort, but Google doesn’t bring up anything but the aforementioned echo chambers. Credible sources. Now.
Charles B., it looks to me like a humiliating defeat is on the cards for PFOX if they continue with this ridiculous complaint of theirs.
Oh, I saw PFOX’s frivolous complaint. We will respond to it.
Tell me something Charlie — if Regina Griggs is “under the powerful anointing of the Holy Spirit” why can’t she even turn her gay son straight?
Wayne Besen,
What do you know of this Christian woman and her son? Nothing! You know nothing! So do not gossip about her son Wayne Besen. Gossip is a sin and will earn you a place in hell. Rom. 1:29, Prov. 20:19. You already have many reasons to go to the lake of fire right along with your master, the Beast, so don’t add to the list!
Aulton,
I gave you and Wayne Besen a link right to the PFOX web site. So I don’t know what more you need. They just started this complaint so that is all there is right now. I was saying that as the case goes ahead, I trust that Quinlan will let the truth out and show all the papers and filings, not like the frightened little homosexual Wayne Besen who was too fearful to show the papers that foretold his defeat.
It’s not gossip — it is a fact. The leader of this noxious cure the gays group is an out homosexual. Regina has said so herself.
So, Charlie, how bout them apples?
They are apples from a serpent and I will not eat of them. I believe nothing you say without proof because you are a reprobate sodomite whose mind has been given up to sin.
However, even if this is correct, it means nothing. All Christians are subject to attack by the enemy and so are their families and these attacks are greater today than ever before! Rev. 12:12-
“Woe to the inhabiters of the earth and of the sea! for the devil is come down unto you, having great wrath, because he knoweth that he hath but a short time.”
Charles,
In the links that you have provided, they say that “P-FOX supports the Ex-Gay Community”.
The “Ex-Gay Community” is an oxymoron. Don’t you get it? The very fact that they see themselves as a sexual minority means they are not part of the sexual majority – i.e. straight.
Your defense of these people does not make sense, as they have not left, and never truly will leave homosexuality.
#20 – Charles B.
LFMAO!!! That was hilarious. Dude man, you sounded just like Golem from Lord of the Rings! My hat’s off to you for your spot on imitation.
Now can you please work in “My precious” in your next post?
Charles reminds me of that old woman in the viral video from a few days ago, whom we later found out was schizophrenic. Charles, which code in the DSM does your diagnosis fall under?
Again, what papers, Magrathean? You keep referring to them so you obviously know what they say. Lying for Jesus is still lying, you know. Show your work. It’s something they teach in elementary, so it can’t be that difficult. But I suppose I truly am asking the impossible of an Anointed One.
I phoned Regina Griggs and said “Your organization is called parents and friends of exgays and gays, in what way are you the friends of gays?”.
She said “We have gay parents who are members of PFox and we support gays right to self determination and that is equality.” and then before I could respond she hung up on me. Obviously she didn’t have any confidence in her ability to say she supports equality knowing I’d bring up their opposition to the right of gays to marry, adopt, and not be fired from their jobs or evicted from their homes merely for being gay.
LOL, I just read the PFox complaint. Charles you say Quinlan is going to have a great victory but you’re going to be eating your words again and hiding from the fact that you lied once again. PFox has no hope of winning this one and you’re going to be backtracking and instead of admitting you lied you’ll be saying “Oh, sometimes god allows the gays to win to show how righteous PFXox is.” or some such drivel.
Priya Linn,
Are you a lawyer? No! Do you know about the law in Maryland? No! Because of the Roman Catholic priests, you do not even know if you are a man or a woman, even though I have told you that God made you a man.
Do not insult the Christians for taking their stand for righteousness. Do not harass her with questions on the phone. Those tactics will not work. They are under the protection of the Holy Spirit. They will have ultimate victory. This is written.
You have the chance to be on the winning side, Priya Linn! You can be restored and the crimson stain of your sin can made white as snow. Will you seek out a true church and begin your life?
Charles, so Griggs son is an apple from the serpant? His life is an attack by the enemy?
Charles, will you quit whining about Priya’s gender? She’s a woman. Just accept it. You’re a whining little boy.
No, Wayne Besen. Your claims about her son are the apples. You are the serpent who tricks people into eating your apples.
If what you say about him is true, then he would be under attack by the demonic realm. Demons are very real, Wayne Besen. I have seen them cast out. You can see this yourself if you go to a true church. You are certainly under the influence of the demonic realm, but you are too blind to see.
Charles, how much are you going to pay me to go to your church?
Your erroneous beliefs about my gender won’t turn me from a woman into a man. You’ll be a much happier person if you learn to accept reality rather than rebelling against that which you cannot change.
I know enough about the law to see that Grigg’s complaint hasn’t got a hope in hell of being taken seriously.
What determines righteousness is the absence of harm. Anything that does not harm others is moral. I am as white as snow as I’ve harmed no one. You and Griggs on the other hand have and continue to seek to harm many and there is blood on your hands – you are both indisputably evil.
Charles, before Adam and Eve ate from the tree of knowledge they didn’t have the knowledge of good and evil. So, how were they supposed to know it was wrong to eat the forbidden fruit? Your god unjustly punished them for something they couldn’t have known was wrong and unjustly declares all innocent people born after them guilty of their alleged wrongdoing. Why do you worship such an unjust monster, Charles?
How much will I pay you to go to a true church, Priya Linn? Perhaps you are used to having men pay for your time?
Well, Priya Linn, although you insult me and mock God, I will pay you. I offer you the chance to have your soul free from a terrible fate of eternal torment. This is more valuable than any amount of money.
Dear Charles:
The Bible is little more than a collection of myths. Please grow a brain and stop bothering us with your infantile beliefs.
Charles, the stories of the bible and eternal torture are too silly to be even remotely believable. Neither you nor anyone else is in a position to threaten me with eternal torture.
But you said you’d pay me to go to your church but you didn’t say how much so I ask you once again, how much will you pay me?
The Magrathean won’t pay. His avarice will not allow it. Just like his madness will not allow him to stop obsessing over Mr. Besen, or stop entertaining us with his bizarre alien logic.
I suspect Charles is actually a Betty Bowers/Jesus’ General style parody, and not a real person. Nobody could write such over-the-top nonsesnse and actually mean it.
Is it “Charles”? or is it Margaret White, Carrie White’s mom… LOL!
*noms on popcorn*
WAYNE –
It looks as if the WHO (World Health Organisation) the oldest health organisation in the world, agrees with everyone at TWO:
http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/gay-%E2%80%98cures%E2%80%99-are-dangerous-says-american-branch-world-health-organization170512
Reparative therapy is not only unjustified, but dangerous. It is official.
Bill S., I was just about to write something similar to what you said. Charles is so over the top I’m starting to think it’s satire.
[...] historic position statement, it’s clear that the Pan American Health Organization agrees with Truth Wins Out: the time has come to officially ban the destructive, unethical, scientifically unsound practice of [...]
so if men who are attracted to men are just envious of their masculinity, then are men who are attracted to women trying to be feminine?