The Restored Hope Network is a group of extremists who want to supplant Exodus International as the primary “ex-gay” organization. The beef that this motley crew has with Exodus is that the group’s president, Alan Chambers, told the truth and said that 99.9% of so-called “ex-gays” have not transformed from gay to straight.
These renegade rascals are hosting their first conference September 21-22 at Sunrise Community Church in Fair Oaks, CA. I will be there to speak out against the Restored Hope Network’s lies and deceptions.
Already, this organization is off to a bad start. It is brazenly rewriting history by claiming that Frank Worthen, who will be there, “was the key figure in the founding of Exodus International in 1973.”
Actually, that is not true. Worthen was a founding member of Love in Action. He was one of three men who started that ministry in 1973. One of the others was John Evans, who left the group after his best friend committed suicide because he could not pray away the gay.
For several decades, Evans has denounced “ex-gay” ministries as a fraud. The other co-founder was Rev. Kent Philpott, who wrote a book, “The Third Sex,” which focused on the testimonies of several “ex-gays.” The book had to be taken off the shelves because those whom Philpott claimed to have converted — actually were still gay. So, Worthen was not even the primary player in Love in Action, but sort of a third wheel who serially exagerrates his significance to overshadow the role the others played.
Exodus was formed in 1976 at Melody Land ministry in Anaheim, CA. Worthen was one of several people who attended the initial conference. The man who actually hosted the conference and played the key role in this movement was Michael Bussee. He later apologized, left the movement and married (pictured) his partner, Gary Cooper, who he had met in his “ex-gay” ministry. (Now you can see why this bizarre group is trying to cover up the past)
Yes, Worthen played a role in the founding of Exodus. But he was not the “key figure” as the historical revisionists at the Restored Hope Network are trying to sell people who are unaware of Exodus’ real history.
Indeed, it is extremely difficult to tell what, if any, role Worthen had because he seems incapable of telling the truth. I mostly left him out of my book, Anything But Straight, because his exaggerations and misstatements were of such a grand scale, I had great difficulty believing anything his said.
For example, I asked him about Bussee, Philpott, and Evans — and he pretended that he had no idea who these guys were — so he could claim to be the sole founder of Exodus. When I presented evidence that he intimately knew these folks, he revised his story on the spot without even blinking.
Well, it appears that the Restored Hope Network has learned from Worthen and is deliberately trying to rewrite history. As for Worthen, this is what he had to say about the upcoming conference:
“I am feeling inexpressible joy that the Lord has brought together a group of people who will not allow the message of hope and change to die in a sea of misguided social/cultural relevance. Restored Hope Network will now carry the torch of freedom from the sin and degradation of homosexuality and the transforming power of Jesus Christ.”
Mr. Worhten, lying about your past and reinventing yourself into someone you are not is a perfect example of the social/cultural relevance that you condemn. Just because there were more important members of Exodus, such as Bussee, who have come out, does not mean you can erase them from history simply because their inconvenient testimony doesn’t fit your new organization’s dishonest agenda.










Frank Worthen is a tired old Queen who had to take his Ex-gay “ministry” (what an oxymoron) to the Philippines because people in 3rd world countries are even MORE gullible than the US (hard to believe with all of the fundagelical christianists & tea baggers we have, I know).
Wayne, if you were expecting fundagelical christianists to tell the truth, you were daydreaming. They are too divorced from reality to know black from white: with all the twisted theological convolutions they are always making they can’t consistently remember which way is up.
Paul — I assume they are all lying. But our job is to inform those who don’t know Worthen’s disturbing history.
Here are the facts: Frank Worthen was ONE of the founders of Exodus — not “THE” Founder as Exodus and RHN would sometimes like folks to believe. The idea for the first confenence in Anaheim in 1976 was ours — Jim Kaspar, Gary Cooper and me. (Gary and I are pictured, above.)
We had heard of Frank Worthen and Love In Action and invited him to the first conference at Melodyland. Frank did almost nothing to actually get it off the ground. He attended, that’s about all. At the conference, we decided to form a “loose-knit” coalition of ministries. Robbi Kenney (another delegate) came up with the name Exodus.
Frank Worthen was one of several people elected by the delegates to serve on the first Board since he had been doing ministry since 1973. Other Board members included: Greg Reid, Jim Kaspar, Ron Dennis, Robbi Kenney and me. Frank hosted the second conference, but should not claim (or imply)that he started Exodus. It’s simply not true.
Thank you for sharing this information, Michael. it is much appreciated.
I was part of the ex gay movement for 7 years in orlando ..Ms Durrance and Sy Rogers were the leaders …A person sexual orientaion can not be changed …Today I have a partner of 11 years and we have 3 children .. I have contacted these ex gay leaders they have deleted me as a friend on FB and went as far to blocked because I spoke out with the truth on this movement .. I think we need to sue them for the pain and sorry they caused our lives and the death of my dear friend !!
I lived in the fundamentalist christian churches for 23 years and as a straight man I have lived in Wisconsin and Florida and Louisiana. The damage that this kind of thinking has done has led to a great deal of fear based thinking. I am glad for movies like Philadelphia which totally revolutionized my life. Though I am not gay, I understand the pain of people saying that what you are doing is si. Remember that going to strip bars, watching X rated adult movies, and visiting prostitutes is considered a gross sin too in the straight church community. The pain of going through all this recovery is devastating. I after watching the movie Philadelphia have not had sex in 19 years because of the fear of aids, s.t.d.’s and pregnancies. However, just like gays I am definitely no changed man on the inside. If I knew there were no consequences not only would I do it but would enjoy it too. I say this not to brag to to show that we as straight people have the same problem and therefore can relate to gays trying to change when in reality, we can not or better yet, I may not even want to.
People who have undergone the “transforming power of Jesus Christ” do not lie, period. If they do lie, they don’t know Christ. As the Bible warns us: Bad fruit cannot come from a good tree. These people are not to be trusted PER THE SCRIPTURES THEY QUOTE!
As an ex-fundamentalist gay man, I can say with absolute conviction and from painful personal experience that there is NO transforming power of/in Jesus Christ… period.
Well staying in denial as long as he has is sort of an accomplishment.
I would like to add to my earlier comment and invite anyone who would like to email me at farrelledward2@gmail.com because I am interested in getting to know gays that have wrestled with this issue. I almost ended up in a retreat center for sex addicts because of going to the clubs and watching x rated movies. The fundamentalist church I attended really make me feel bad about it with an admonition that God allows aids to infect those who do such practices. The scare tactic of god gave them up went on a lot and it scared me. But it was not the church who saved my life, but rather it was a gay man with aids. A friend of mine that went to the movie with me is from a southern baptist background and friends of mine were telling me he was gay but never had the courage to tell me because of the church I attended and the people we both knew. That movie really changed my whole life and I would love to know of more gay movies like this with a political controversy like Philadelphia. I would love to hear from any readers at farrelledward2@gmail.com because this was 19 years ago. I have seen gay rights get worse in the last 19 years for friends of mine who are gay. My aids test turned out negative but I know of twelve people who did not and by the way eight of them were straight men. I say that because aids is not just a gay disease it is everybody’s disease.
Dementia ??????
I have come across some awareness lately that has been unsettling for me. When I found that my life was in a downward spiral and that I needed help, I turned to the Ex-gay community. I thought that they, thinking they were like me, would be able to help me. So when I went to them. I thought they were peers and safe. So, they told me that they had been “delivered” from homosexuality and that I could be too. Of course the word “delivered” is a tremendously confusing concept.
So I followed them and began to bring others along behind me. I discovered that in fact they had not been delivered from homosexuality (my understanding of their words was that homosexuality was eradicated from their lives) and that some of the most significant leaders in fact still had all of the same sex attractions they had always had
So, my awareness is this. I was led down a deceptive path, drank the koolaid and began to live the same deception they had been living and teaching. My own peers who should have been the safest ones to trust actually led me astray
Then they said to follow straight men! They told me that I could be like them. So, I turned to straight men thinking they had the answers for my new life! Straight men didn’t know anything about what it is like to be gay. How could they possibly know how to help me find a life of value and blessing????
I am sorting through the personal affects of living through over two decades of being told I could find deliverance. I am also sorting through the after affects of being an Ex-gay leader for over two decades.
I walked alongside many of the foundational leaders of the Exodus movement. One of the more significant leaders said over and over that he had been delivered from homosexuality. While riding with him in his car one day, many years ago, he said he was still very attracted to the younger men he sees every day.
I should have listened to my heart then and ran away. But instead I just stuffed this experience and continued to hope for my own deliverance.
Today I am attempting to deconstruct the faulty foundation and going through a very challenging time with it all.
The Restored Hope Network will not succeed. Far too many truth tellers exist today. It is a remnant alright, but one that will quickly sink. It may have worked in 1974, but it will not work today. They do not have the goods, nor the truth.
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Many of you seem to have this fear that these homophobes will have success recruiting to their “new” version of this tired and fraudulent belief system. They won’t. “Reparative Conversion therapy” has been proven beyond a shadow of a doubt to be fraudulent and everyone knows it. The belief that one can “pray away the gay” has been proven, ad nauseum, to be nothing but self deception. Again, everyone knows it.
If this “new” ex-gay organization gets members it will only be a smattering of homophobes that have already drunk the Kool-Aid. It will literally be preaching to the choir as these people have already, CONSCIOUSLY, made up their minds to be homophobic, self-hating bigots. Again, these won’t be new recruits to the movement but rather nothing more than societal-fringe whack jobs with nothing better to do with their time than to indulge their own neuroses.
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