Active Christian Media’s Stacy Harp has always been a little bit off her rocker, so I’m not surprised by her latest stunt. She has chosen several activists, including moi, and placed their heads on social media sites asking people to pray for us. It kind of looks like the FBI’s “Most Wanted” list hanging at my local post office, except the people are happy.
Speaking of which, if it was Harp’s goal to portray LGBT people as “unhappy” heathens, she spectacularly failed. The photos she used portrayed her subjects as deliriously cheerful and we appeared to be rather pleased with our lives. For example, she chose a photo of me on my wedding day holding hands with my spouse, Jamie.
I want to thank her for widely disseminating such an image to her flock. There is no doubt that the closeted homosexuals who listen to anti-gay activists like Harp will see a vivid picture of what their lives could be if they simply stopped believing the lies. They too could be smiling, like we are, on their wedding day, instead of living a depressing facade to please Harp’s perpetually perturbed God.
Keep the prayers coming Stacy — but you might be surprised to learn that God might be using you to help self-loathing gay Christians see the light and come out of the closet.








We should send her pictures to add to her prayer list. ;)
I have a great portrait of me and John she could use.
When I was an evangelical, I was taught that praying over picture cards was occult-like.
But I guess times change, and conservative Christians change with them.
I was surprised Joe My God wasn’t on there. Hey Alvin @ Holy Bullies made the Top Row, LOL!
I like theirs of sending her photos through email. Wayne, this could be one of your
Projects that might bear some real, er, ah. Fruit.
We’re all laughing now, but I get this sinking feeling that one of Stacy’s loony followers is going to be using this list for more than prayer.
This somehow feminds me of the ludicrous sects that take to christianing people after death to let them into their version of heaven. I think it’s been done six or seven times to Anne Frank. People need to get a grip…
Could that be the sect that is trying to promote one of their bishops into the Oval Office? Hmmmmmm.
You bet I will and if any of you want me to add you to the list, feel free to send me your photo and I’ll add you to the page also. :)
P.S – Wayne, you obviously forgot when you commented on my Facebook page the day we actually did pray for you about three months ago.
Stacy Harp is far more than simply nutty; having actually seen her facebook page I’m convinced she’s psychotic…
No thanks Stacy, don’t waste your time communing with nonexistent bronze age mythological fairy tale dieties on our account. Instead you should spend your time returning to school (REAL school, not religious school) and learning some science and true history (not xtian christofascist rewrites). There is only our natural universe, and religion was invented by old men to control women, sex, and money. It was invented a long time ago and is losing ground to modernity, as it should, but it sticks around because the ignorant cannot give up their security blanket.
“Religion is something left over from the infancy of our intelligence; it will fade away as we adopt reason and science as our guidelines.” –Bertrand Russell
“For my part I would as soon be descended from a baboon…as from a savage who delights to torture his enemies…treats his wives like slaves…and is haunted by the grossest superstitions.” –Charles Darwin, “The Descent of Man”
Humans invented fairies and elves, boogie men and Santa Claus, unicorns and chimeras, Lady Luck and God.
@Stacy Harp yes dear we are OHH SO FLATTERED(sarcasm) that you want to “help” us… No prove your prayers do something and fix Africa.
Stacy, after you’ve done some serious praying, please come back here and share the verified statistics on how the awesome power of prayer has been working out. You will be judged by the results. That’s only fair, isn’t it?
I sent Stacy a picture of me and said “Stacy I hear you’re praying for LGBT people to stop being LGBT and I figure the more time you spend praying the less time you’ll have to actually harm LGBTs so could you please pray for me to stop being transexual?”
She said she would, lol.
Does this lady really have much of a flock? I followed the links provided and they both seemed wholly under-trafficked. It seems to me we’re the only ones listening.
Michael, I think Stacey’s audience is very small.
[...] She appears to be one of those Christians who thinks God wants her to make happy people unhappy. Wayne Besen of Truth Wins Out notes: She has chosen several activists, including moi, and placed their heads on social media sites [...]
My website traffic is not too high, around 1200-1500 a month, but my radio show I have about 30,000 listeners a month. So more people pay attention to me on my radio show, and I’m happy to say that my numbers continue to increase. ;)
You could say that I’m one of the most active Christians out there, that talks about the issues of homosexuality out there, but I’m not in it for the money and I don’t use the kickback I get, as a fundraising tool, like the others you all mention, like say, Peter LaBarbera who uses your attacks to raise money. I don’t care about the money. I discuss these issues because they are important to me and my listeners. So, yes, it would be best if you didn’t pay any attention to me, that way I can continue to spread the news I do, and influence the tens of thousands that I do. I’m a nobody… pay more attention to Peter and the others. Have a nice day.
And yet, the comments on your pray away page consist primarily of people saying how sick and twisted you are. And you’re also apparently interested in deception. You posted Priya’s pic, but you failed to mention her entire message which was, “…I figure the more time you spend praying the less time you’ll have to actually harm LGBTs…” Funny how you left that part out. You are no different from Petey or Maggie or Linda or Tony, or…
Stacy, great–you don’t do it for the money. You’re an unpaid bigot!
Did Stacy Harp just kneecap Porno Pete as an exploitative charlatan whose only goal is to gay bash for a buck?
Very interesting observation.
Nope, Wayne, I just stated the obvious, which you do too. It’s all about money for you too. I’ve seen your emails. You’re no different than anyone on the right who does this for money….but you know that already.
I’m willing to bet Klansmen were also unpaid and their prayers were just as hateful and vile as yours Stacy.
Stacy doesn’t your religion have a little caveat about not bearing false witness?
“…Peter LaBarbera, who uses your attacks to raise money.”
um, OUR attacks on LaBarbera?! Seriously?! Could it be possible that people like Peter LaBarbera (and you) are “attacking” gay people? Is it possible that we are merely responding to LaBarbera’s (and your) attacks?
“…it would be best if you didn’t pay any attention to me, that way I can continue to spread the news I do.”
Are you trying to reach gay people to help THEM or are you preaching to straight people who hate gays? It seems to me that if you want to help gay people, why waste ANY time preaching to heterosexuals about homosexuality? If you saw your sleeping neighbor’s garage on fire would you take the time to call your aunt in Poughkeepsie to warn HER about it?
Don’t you know Michael? Bullies like Stacy and Porno-Pete think they have the righ to attack anyone they want and defending ourselves somehow makes them the victims.
Doug said “You posted Priya’s pic, but you failed to mention her entire message which was, “…I figure the more time you spend praying the less time you’ll have to actually harm LGBTs…” Funny how you left that part out.”.
Yes, I didn’t expect Stacy to lie about what I said, but I should have.
I’m fascinated by the whole mindf*ck of her board.
She states in the top banner: “prayer offered in the name of Christ is the best way to love the struggling homosexual or lesbian.” Then when someone calls her on it, her assuming these people are struggling when they seem to be leading happy productive lives her answer is “that’s your assumption”
She also claims to not trying to pray away the gay. She says “I find it interesting that you are assuming I am trying to pray away the gay, no where have I ever stated that.”
So what ARE you stating? You’re trying to pray they become healthy happy adults who are comfortable and proud of who they are? Looking at the list, I’d say been there done that.
And she dodges the folks who point out that she refused to refer to Ricky Martin’s sons has her SONS, but rather “The two small boys he is raising.”
Frankly, I see this board as a board of PRIDE. These are the people who have gotten this bigot’s attention because they won’t play by her rules. I commend everyone mentioned.
And Stacy, for the record, no. Not everyone needs prayer. More specifically, not everyone needs YOUR prayer.
I’m confused. That picture is of a dude. Is Priya an FTM?
Its an old picture Ben, I’m MTF