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	<title>Comments on: Video: My Five Years In Reparative Therapy Were &#8216;Based On Stereotypes&#8217; And &#8216;It Doesn&#8217;t Work&#8217;</title>
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		<title>By: Ben in Oakland</title>
		<link>http://www.truthwinsout.org/blog/2012/10/30310/comment-page-1/#comment-79796</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben in Oakland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Oct 2012 02:09:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I guess I have my answer. By my count, the exgays who are still gay are winning, 43-0.

Honey, you&#039;re pathetic. Get help. Real help.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess I have my answer. By my count, the exgays who are still gay are winning, 43-0.</p>
<p>Honey, you&#8217;re pathetic. Get help. Real help.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael C</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 23:02:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To the person who posted a comment under the name Chris W. First off, thank you for copy-and-pasting your heartfelt testimony here. I am truly touched by your NARTH textbook life experiences. While both of my parents were loving, emotionally supportive and available, maintained strong parent/child boundaries and I was never abused or neglected, I too have attraction for the same sex. Because you blame your parents for your sexual orientation, I will follow suit. Your father never gave me the attention or affection I so longed for. Every relationship I enter is a proxy for the love your father never gave me. It IS all his fault.

...oh yeah, your mom made me gay, too.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To the person who posted a comment under the name Chris W. First off, thank you for copy-and-pasting your heartfelt testimony here. I am truly touched by your NARTH textbook life experiences. While both of my parents were loving, emotionally supportive and available, maintained strong parent/child boundaries and I was never abused or neglected, I too have attraction for the same sex. Because you blame your parents for your sexual orientation, I will follow suit. Your father never gave me the attention or affection I so longed for. Every relationship I enter is a proxy for the love your father never gave me. It IS all his fault.</p>
<p>&#8230;oh yeah, your mom made me gay, too.</p>
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		<title>By: Pat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 19:47:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;...debate within the State of California on this issue to make reparative/sexual orientation change therapy &#039;unethical&#039;...&quot;
Oh, honey, it&#039;s *already* unethical. Which is *why* we&#039;re trying to restrict it. You can&#039;t make something unethical. That doesn&#039;t make sense.

Incidentally, I read through your long comment. I notice that you used a whole lot of words, but didn&#039;t actually say anything.
Are you straight now? You didn&#039;t even make the claim.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;&#8230;debate within the State of California on this issue to make reparative/sexual orientation change therapy &#8216;unethical&#8217;&#8230;&#8221;<br />
Oh, honey, it&#8217;s *already* unethical. Which is *why* we&#8217;re trying to restrict it. You can&#8217;t make something unethical. That doesn&#8217;t make sense.</p>
<p>Incidentally, I read through your long comment. I notice that you used a whole lot of words, but didn&#8217;t actually say anything.<br />
Are you straight now? You didn&#8217;t even make the claim.</p>
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		<title>By: Wayne Besen</title>
		<link>http://www.truthwinsout.org/blog/2012/10/30310/comment-page-1/#comment-79793</link>
		<dc:creator>Wayne Besen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 12:16:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Chris:

Reparative therapy has not been a positive or healing experience in your life. It has profoundly screwed you up psychologically and emotionally. Your testimony and tortured &quot;logic&quot; is evidence of why such mentally abusive trash should be banned for minors.

What you have presented as science is nothing but pseudoscience. You are not gay because of your relationship with your parents. It is so tragic that you have been duped into blaming people for your natural sexual orientation.

Furthermore, I&#039;ll pay for physical tests, such as the No Lie MRI, to prove that you are lying to us. You are still a homosexual -- thus have wasted a lot of time and money, as well as endured unnecessary anguish and pain while your quack therapist lined his pockets with your hard earned money,]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris:</p>
<p>Reparative therapy has not been a positive or healing experience in your life. It has profoundly screwed you up psychologically and emotionally. Your testimony and tortured &#8220;logic&#8221; is evidence of why such mentally abusive trash should be banned for minors.</p>
<p>What you have presented as science is nothing but pseudoscience. You are not gay because of your relationship with your parents. It is so tragic that you have been duped into blaming people for your natural sexual orientation.</p>
<p>Furthermore, I&#8217;ll pay for physical tests, such as the No Lie MRI, to prove that you are lying to us. You are still a homosexual &#8212; thus have wasted a lot of time and money, as well as endured unnecessary anguish and pain while your quack therapist lined his pockets with your hard earned money,</p>
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		<title>By: Mathew Shurka, Ex-Gay Reparative Therapy Patient, Gives Emotional Video Testimony &#171; GoodOleWoody&#039;s Blog and Website</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mathew Shurka, Ex-Gay Reparative Therapy Patient, Gives Emotional Video Testimony &#171; GoodOleWoody&#039;s Blog and Website</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 11:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] Originally posted on Truth Wins Out, the clip features frank commentary from New York City resident Mathew Shurka, who says he was subjected to reparative therapy in California for five years, starting at age 16 after coming out to his father. [...] ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Originally posted on Truth Wins Out, the clip features frank commentary from New York City resident Mathew Shurka, who says he was subjected to reparative therapy in California for five years, starting at age 16 after coming out to his father. [...] </p>
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		<title>By: Ben in Oakland</title>
		<link>http://www.truthwinsout.org/blog/2012/10/30310/comment-page-1/#comment-79791</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben in Oakland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 10:52:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, Chris, are the questions.

Are you heterosexual now? Do you have relations and relationships with women? Are there any times you look at a man or men and say &quot;yummy&quot;, before you shut it down?

And will you swear it&#039;s true on your sacred promise to Jesus, assuming you are Christian? Otherrwise, by whatever you hold most holy?

Or will you be like every other person I&#039;ve asked these questions of, hemming and hawing before ultimately failing to answer?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, Chris, are the questions.</p>
<p>Are you heterosexual now? Do you have relations and relationships with women? Are there any times you look at a man or men and say &#8220;yummy&#8221;, before you shut it down?</p>
<p>And will you swear it&#8217;s true on your sacred promise to Jesus, assuming you are Christian? Otherrwise, by whatever you hold most holy?</p>
<p>Or will you be like every other person I&#8217;ve asked these questions of, hemming and hawing before ultimately failing to answer?</p>
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		<title>By: Jerry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 08:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mathew--Oh how I hear you.  Congratulations on your new found freedom.

Back in the fifties, I went through reparative therapy at a major Minnesota clinic I will not name. Three days a week for seven years, I drove 15 miles from my small town teaching job to the clinic for my sessions.  No insurance.  I paid it myself.

The idea was that I had to find the reason I &quot;chose&quot; to be gay, talk about it and the gay would go away. Yah right.  The good shrink tried everything and nothing clicked.  His last effort was to suggest I had made the &quot;choice&quot; while still in my mother&#039;s womb.  That&#039;s when I realized he was the confused one.  Then he pronounced me &quot;cured,&quot; told me to date girls to get over my fear and said goodbye.  

Shortly after, with the help of a psychiatrist in private practice, I could accept myself as a gay man.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mathew&#8211;Oh how I hear you.  Congratulations on your new found freedom.</p>
<p>Back in the fifties, I went through reparative therapy at a major Minnesota clinic I will not name. Three days a week for seven years, I drove 15 miles from my small town teaching job to the clinic for my sessions.  No insurance.  I paid it myself.</p>
<p>The idea was that I had to find the reason I &#8220;chose&#8221; to be gay, talk about it and the gay would go away. Yah right.  The good shrink tried everything and nothing clicked.  His last effort was to suggest I had made the &#8220;choice&#8221; while still in my mother&#8217;s womb.  That&#8217;s when I realized he was the confused one.  Then he pronounced me &#8220;cured,&#8221; told me to date girls to get over my fear and said goodbye.  </p>
<p>Shortly after, with the help of a psychiatrist in private practice, I could accept myself as a gay man.</p>
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		<title>By: Paul Douglas</title>
		<link>http://www.truthwinsout.org/blog/2012/10/30310/comment-page-1/#comment-79789</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul Douglas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 08:05:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Chris, I cannot argue that your growing up situation wasn&#039;t profoundly disturbing. It is fine by me that you have spent your life trying to change yourself. I personally wouldn&#039;t waste the energy, but that is your business. 

Buddy, the issue here is forcing MINORS to undergo scientifically unproven and mentally damaging reparative therapy. If you as an adult want to pour the big bucks down that ole rathole, go ahead. People pour money into all kinds of crazy schemes, hobbies, &amp; habits all the time, and who is to stop them? Just leave the kids alone. Snag &#039;em after their 21, OK? That&#039;s what this law is all about. Kids being forced by crazy religious parents to undergo a disproven &quot;therapy&quot; that is psychically destructive.

Chris, you didn&#039;t tell us what religious group you are involved in. Inquiring minds want to know.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris, I cannot argue that your growing up situation wasn&#8217;t profoundly disturbing. It is fine by me that you have spent your life trying to change yourself. I personally wouldn&#8217;t waste the energy, but that is your business. </p>
<p>Buddy, the issue here is forcing MINORS to undergo scientifically unproven and mentally damaging reparative therapy. If you as an adult want to pour the big bucks down that ole rathole, go ahead. People pour money into all kinds of crazy schemes, hobbies, &amp; habits all the time, and who is to stop them? Just leave the kids alone. Snag &#8216;em after their 21, OK? That&#8217;s what this law is all about. Kids being forced by crazy religious parents to undergo a disproven &#8220;therapy&#8221; that is psychically destructive.</p>
<p>Chris, you didn&#8217;t tell us what religious group you are involved in. Inquiring minds want to know.</p>
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		<title>By: Priya Lynn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Priya Lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 03:59:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Chris your detailed comment shows how profoundly the &quot;therapy&quot; has messed up your mind.  Far from appearing healed, you seem to be very angry and in a great deal of turmoil over your real and imagined past.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris your detailed comment shows how profoundly the &#8220;therapy&#8221; has messed up your mind.  Far from appearing healed, you seem to be very angry and in a great deal of turmoil over your real and imagined past.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Airhart</title>
		<link>http://www.truthwinsout.org/blog/2012/10/30310/comment-page-1/#comment-79787</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Airhart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2012 02:24:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Chris, you unwittingly made the case against reparative therapy for us. Thank you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris, you unwittingly made the case against reparative therapy for us. Thank you.</p>
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