We’d love your thoughts on who won the second debate.
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You do since you went on the attack as soon as someone challenged your belief that no one is allowed to challenge you.
Can I challenge you? Is that allowed?
Show me where I said you couldn’t.
Is that a “yes”?
Hello out there!!!! Is that a “yes”?
Ok, Rainbow, I’ll just accept that you are a pathetic loser.
More insults. Just more proof that we hit a nerve.
Is that all you can say. “Looks like we hit a nerve.”
You’ve sat here responding to my insults. Whose nerve actually got hit? Stupid b***h.
You won’t answer my yes or no question because you know that it exposes your hypocrisy.
So you’re allowed to freak out because someone challenged your priviledge but I’m not allowed to defend myself. Hypocrite.
Where did I say that you are not allowed to defend yourself? I can’t be held responsible if you are too mentally deficient to defend yourself effectively.
I’m just defending myself against your perceived privilege.
Can I challenge you? Is that allowed?
More insults. All because someone challenged your priviledge. Grow up.
Can I challenge you? Is that allowed ?
Hey rainbow, can I challenge you? Is that allowed?
Rainbow, can I challenge you? Is that allowed?
Bow, can I challenge you? is that allowed?
“You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten youl.” – Eric Hoffer
obama definitely won…
Linda, in my opinion you’re a whiny, thin-skinned whimp with a sense of entitlement who came on this site to troll and then got your panties in a bunch when people didn’t just roll over and take it from your overly developed self esteem regarding your stupid opinion. I don’t care what your opinion of me is, because I think so little of you. Go ahead, challenge me.
And, Linda, where did anyone say you can’t stand up for yourself? Did anyone stop you? You repeat the same idiotic whiny post over and over yet claim you’re not allowed to speak? What a pathetic whiner you are.
As I see it Linda didn’t use an insult because her sense of privilege was challenged, she used an insult as a response to her being insulted in order to show that insults are not good arguments.
Sorry guys, I’m with Linda on this one. She was insulted and when she responded in the same way you tried to falsely claim it was because she felt she should be free from criticism – she never expressed any such sentiment.
What I’m trying to say is that Linda was insulted first, you guys can’t claim any sort of moral high ground because she responded with an insult.
And “b***h” means female dog in the same way that “gay” means happy.
Don’t care Priya. I never said Linda couldn’t insult me back and I don’t care that she did. I’m not claiming any high ground. I agreed with someone that she’s a pathetic loser and she called me a word that apparently has to be censored on this site. I don’t care about her opinion of me and I don’t care about yours.
Daniel, I didn’t really distinguish between whether you or Rainbow were posting but one or the both of you pretended that you had some sort of moral high ground on Linda, no objective observer would agree, you’re as bad as she is.
If you want to make the most convincing arguments you should be concerned with how you come across, but, hey if you don’t care about rational people taking you seriously then neither do I.
And Daniel, I never claimed you said Linda couldn’t insult you back, you’re missing the entire point, which isn’t really surprising.
Yes I was so horrible for challenging the idea that an sort of criticism is a violation of someone’s right to have an opinion at all.
She never said anything like that Rainbow, that was entirely a fabrication of your own mind.
No, that was her second comment.
I think the only way someone can shout that R-O-M-N-E-Y!!!!!! won the debate is if they are attracted to arrogant alpha-male bullies.
Rainbow, calling someone a loser is not a criticism. She did not assert that criticizing her was a violation of her right to have an opinion. She asserted that insulting her was an attempt to shut her up – I agree with her. Then you and/or Daniel tried to criticize her for insulting you but you had no criticism for Gary insulting her. You guys have a double standard – insults were okay for Gary, but not for Linda.
And I agree, Obama won the debate and most rational people would agree with that. But Obama was not as clear cut a winner of the second debate as Romney was of the first so her calling Romney the winner wasn’t completely absurd.
Wow Rainbow and Daniel… Just wow.
You boys are no better than schoolyard bullies.
And Rainbow, “Word definitions are derived from the original, literal meaning. If the original meaning can not be applied in any sense, the derivitive meanings lose effectiveness.”
That’s a crock of bull-puckey right there. (“Bull” being a good example of a word that has derivative definitions that have not lost their effectiveness despite a complete inapplicability of the original meaning. Unless you have a good explanation for how a “bull” market, calling someone on their “bull,” and unaltered male cattle have anything real relation.)
Though I disagree with Linda on who won the debate, I agree entirely with her point that hurling insults is both juvenile and a sign of a poorly thought-out position.
I felt that Romney totally wiped out Obama in the first debate.The second he made a few good points,but got a little too aggressive at trying to convince the people to where he stands on the issues.What I see is our country is no better off now than 4 years ago.Obama did do a better debate the second go around than Romney.My vote will go to Romney/Ryan no question about that.I trust Romney?Ryan more so than Obama/Biden This day and time there aren’t many politicians that I do trust.
Kathryn, if I wanted a president who would deny science, put right-wing judges on the Supreme Court, roll back gay rights, benefit the richest people at the expense of everyone else, trash the environment, massively increase military spending, roll back the right to abortion and even contraception, make the US once again the world’s bully, and agitate for another war in the middle east, Romney/Ryan would be the guys I would trust, too.
Kathryn Burnett: Why do you trust what Bishop Romney tells you this week? He’s just gonna change his mind in whatever direction the wind is blowin’ next month. He promoted mandated universal health care in Massachusetts and now he’s against it. He supported gay rights in Massachusetts and now he’s against it. He supported a woman’s right to choose and now he’s against it. He’s magically going to solve the deficit and keep all of the tax breaks the rich have and not harm medicare. He’s going to raise military spending at the same time he’s cuttin’ that ole deficit, too just to show us it can be done. In the meantime, how many $ does he have stashed in the Cayman Islands? Kathryn, you are a sheeple and you want a messiah. Well I hope we don’t get your Brigham Young wannabe because frankly I think he is one of the most shallow, self-serving, smarmy jerks that Gawds Own Party and their Tea Party Taliban have ever come up with to snooker to the American public.
Thanks for writing.
Why are the Massachusets voters not interested in Romney anymore? Ryan’s voters aren’t interested in him either.
Clearly Obama won. Linda are you actually one of us? GoProud maybe? I was Republican when I was young, then I saw where that logic led and became independent before becoming a Democrat. Kind of like coming out of the closet for many people “Of course straight….I’m bisexual…Gay as f*ck.” Instead (I was always out) “I’m Republican…I’m voting for Perot…Democrat”
That leads me to say… I do not understand GoProud or the Log Cabin. I do not understand Republican members of any minority at this point actually. Still, not my business, but please don’t try to tell me that the positions are logically consistent. They aren’t.
Regards,
Reyn