I never thought the Religious Right would endorse barebacking, but it turns out I was wrong. No, it’s not what you think, but the notion is equally
bizarre.
Gay Star News reported today on research from Ned Flaherty that The Cowboy Church of Virginia, led by chief pastor Raymond Bell, believes homosexuality and other ‘addictions’ can be cured by Equine Assisted Psychotherapy. The church urged gay men to stroke horses to help them go from gay-to-straight.
We’ve have all heard of “pray away the gay” but how about the new technique of “neigh away the gay”?
‘EAP can help any person who is living the homosexual lifestyle or involved in it in anyway,’ he told Gay Star News.
‘The first common misconception is that homosexuality is genetic, or hereditary, or as some say “born this way”.
‘Homosexuality is actually a type of addiction. It is not “curable” as a disease because it is a “choice driven” by the person.’
Bell said he uses EAP to identify how a person got ‘involved’ in homosexuality to begin with. For example, because of rape, abandonment, lacking a male role model, abuse, and having low self-esteem.
He said: ‘Homosexuality is a secondary effect from a single, or multiple, primary events in a person’s life.’
Bell is parroting classic reparative therapy used by the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH). For example, Gerard van den Aardweg, NARTH Scientific Advisory Board member and author of Homosexuality and Hope: A Psychoanalyst Talks About Treatment and Change, also claims that homosexuality is a secondary effect.
“Homosexuality is just a kind of neurosis,” says van den Aardweg in his book. “The person with this complex harbors a specific ‘self-pitying’ child…I will argue that homosexual feelings spring from a special type of inferiority complex: hence innately such a person is not homosexual, but heterosexual.”
Outlandish ideas and practices are nothing new in reparative therapy. For instance, key NARTH therapist James Phelan urges clients to practice “safe driving” so they don’t get into a wreck:
“Keep your eyes on the road, not on other peoples’ cars,” the therapist warns. “Focus on driving, not having sex with other drivers.” He also urges clients to “avoid driving alone at all possible” and “avoid listening to those media trap radio stations and music that glorifies SSA.” If that isn’t enough, one is supposed to tell their accountability partner, “when you will be on the road and when you will reach your destination.”
In the Southern Poverty Law Center lawsuit against Jews Offering New Alternatives to Homosexuality (JONAH), one plaintiff alleged that in therapy his “ex-gay” counselor used oranges as testicles.
Nonetheless, horse therapy may be the most insane “ex-gay” idea we have seen. According to Flaherty:
There are nearly 1,000 Southern Baptist Cowboy Churches nationwide, though how many sell ex-gay therapy is unclear. This ex-gay therapy is sold by the Cowboy Church of Virginia, but my research indicates that they do not have any of the 7 essentials that are needed by a reputable health clinic:
- Informed Consent Statements
- Accredited Certification
- Professional Supervision
- Government Regulation
- Medical/Mental Health Licenses
- Medical/Mental Malpractice Insurance
- Consumer Fraud Insurance
At this rate, Truth Wins Out might have to change its name to “Truth Whinnies Out.” (look it up)
Note: The following video is from Fauquier Cowboy Church in Bealeton, VA, which may or may not sell the same EAP “ex-gay” therapy that is being sold at Cowboy Church of Virginia in Roanoke, VA.
** It is important to remember that every respected medical and mental health organization in America is opposed to attempts to change sexual orientation.










But the real question is – do they allow bareback riding? :: RUNS ::
Most ridiculous bunch of horse s**t I have ever heard.
Haha — damn I should have used that line Mykelb
I guess this explains why so many jockeys are heterosexual.
Considering how much they equate homosexuality and beastiality, how can they not think this puts gays on a “slippery slope?”
If I could stop laughing, I’d leave a comment.
Gays stroking a horse — does that make her a Fag Nag !?! :PPPPPPP
Would this help guys with those curved (sway back) cocks?
Did these real mens ever see Brokeback Mountain?
You know, Wayne, You gotta ask yourself how these “treatments” are discovered! For all I’ve been through, I’ve never been told to go stroke a horse! Mercy! gotts stop laughing now.
What if the horse is gay?
As a certified special needs horseback riding instructor (PATH International is our certifying organization, formerly NARHA), I would like to point out that this is NOT in any way consistent with any usual program of equine-based therapy. Equine-assisted psychotherapy can be helpful for some people, but this is definitely not within the normal practice and I do not believe that these folks are associated with the professional equestrian therapy community in any way.
I’m irritated at the possibility of these deluded, unfortunate people creating negative press for actual equestrian therapies.
My boyfriend works with horses every day …. so apparently it doesn’t work!
If playing with a pussy didn’t turn me straight, I’m not sure how a horse would.
LOL !!!
In all seriousness, do they want you to interact with a male horse or a female horse?
Being a cowboy around horses doesn’t make you straight…haven’t these morons seen “Brokeback Mountain”?!
Wayne, I hate to correct you, but this is NEIGH away the gay,
NAY away the gay is accomplished by saying over and over “I’m NOT gay. I’m a heterosexual with issues. I’m NOT gay. I just like looking at handsome men wearing nothing. I’m NOT gay, no matter how many times I visit the men’s room at the Minneapolis Airport.”
Cowboy Church? American Christianity is truly nothing but a bad joke. It would be funny if millions of people weren’t tortured and hurt by it.
It is so true, Steve; have to remember that people actually fall for this stuff, and get hurt, as do family and friends. Wish it were all humor, and written by satirists, but instead it is deadly serious.
Let’s hope for a better 2013—may the Supreme Court see that we are all more alike than not.
Can we somehow get this yahoo to testify for the SB1172 lawsuit? More folks like this need to come forward to defend SOCE.
I’ve ridden horses all my life. I’m more gay now. Adding more gay to the nay. Horses barns bails of Hay farm hands….. I think if someone wants to change from gay to straight maybe making Apple pies with grandma rather than testosterone filled porn movies images might have a better chance. At least when you finally figure out you can’t change from shocking your finger in a light socket at least you have a few recipes under your….umm…. belt.
Oh God. Wayne, the article is priceless as are all the comments. I laughed so hard I came in my pants!
I rode horseback a lot when I was young. If ANYBODY should not have been gay, it should be me. But I’m still queer as pink ink.
“Yahoo” is actually what the horses in Jonathan Swift’s “Gulliver’s Travels” call humans.
If this were the case, there wouldn’t be the IGRA – International Gay Rodeo Association – or the dozen plus state gay rodeo associations that you can find on the first few pages of a simple Bing search.
The comments are a Crowning Moment of Funny in themselves! I’m laughing too hard to breathe!
Haha what a load of crap…
I live on a farm and have been around horses and working with them basically my whole life, am still working with them.
Guess what… IM STILL GAY!!!!
Maybe there’s a specific way you have to stroke them?
I am a trained and expeienced therapist and the idea to use horse therapy not only angers me because it won’t turn someone straight, but there is legitimate and therapeutic horse therapy for developmentally and/or emotionally disturbed children/adolescents and this really muddies the waters for those who it is intened for. This is so confusing and misleading for people that don’t understand the legitimate use of horses for therapy. And if I think about it further, if an unlicensed and untrained person is working with a client with some type of abuse, this can make the symptoms worse.
What part of the horse should they stroke? Hmmmmmmm?
I guess the subtitle of this article should be: “Don’t be a naaaaysayer, we aren’t horsing around, “change” is possible! Lol
Hmm….there is a certain HOT classic all male gay porn DVD called “Like a Horse”…maybe they use that in their “therapy” sessions?
As my dad always used ot say– and i hope i didn’t post this already…
“there are more horses asses in the world than there are horses.”
Can’t neighsay that.
Only in America
The Cowboy Church of Virginia issued a vague rebuttal:
“Malice with criminal intent.” These cowboys have a flair for the dramatic.
I’m not sure why they singled-out Instinct which seems to have only quoted the Gay Star News article.
The best way to prove to the world that your group is not “normal” is to have someone write a story as far out of normalcy as this one is. Your leader continues to prove the point the ex gays are trying to make. Someone in this group is extremely not “normal”.
Not only will they hurt people psychologically, but now they have outdid themselves in another ridiculous fraud. Makes a good case for legal action. Too bad Virginia doesn’t want to hear it.