Oh, Porno Pete, your little flimsily constructed worldview is just falling down all around you:
“Redefining” it? Not so much. It’s just that people are now seeing that families led by gay couples are just as wholesome as any other family full of love and support. Wingnuts like you never owned the word “wholesome,” and with your history, I doubt you’d even qualify to rent it.
Here’s that ad if you haven’t seen it yet: