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Posted October 21st, 2011 by Evan Hurst

If you read the wingnuts, and I do, you’ve been seeing this melodramatic story floating around the internets this week. Basically, here is what had happened was:

A high school in Connecticut staged a production of a play called Zanna Don’t, which seems to portray some sort of reverse world where gay is the norm, where straight is what is “different.” Among other things, at one point in the play, there is a same-sex kiss. This apparently prompted a few homophobic jocks to use that good old seventeen year-old maturity they’re so well known for and hiss, boo and then leave the room. The principals of the school stand by their decision, pointing to the childish reaction of some of these kids — and their parents — as evidence that these kids still have some learning to do about accepting other people.

Of course, that will be difficult, as the professional fundamentalist wingnut set have stepped up to model childish behavior for the rest of us, and to reassure those victimized football players that they, too, can grow up and be whiny, crying wingnuts. So, let’s look at a couple of the wingnuts and then move on to something else.

Rob Kerby at BeliefNet:

“Even though it’s kind of chaotic, kind of wild and crazy, I see it as very successful,” Chambers said. “Our kids never deal with this, they keep it inside, and that’s that nervous energy. That’s why they walked out.”

It apparently did not occur to him that some of the kids had moral issues with the scene — believing that glorifying same-gender romance is wrong. Chambers’ intent was to wear down the students sense of disgust and discomfort with viewing homosexuality on stage.

Wingnuts never seem to understand that their kids wouldn’t act like uncomfortably repressed bigots if their elders did not first model that behavior. It says more about the weaknesses of the people raising them than it does about gay people.

Rob the BeliefNet Guy decided to quote a bunch of reader comments from an article on LifeSiteNews, apparently not realizing that highlighting poorly constructed and inadvertently hilarious wingnut comments is really not helpful to their cause. Let’s see what they had to say:

“This is one more example of how parents can simply not trust the public schools when it comes to teaching their children about morality and sexuality,” wrote a reader identified as Sunshine. ”They knew this would offend Christian students and their parents, but went ahead without notifying parents in advance. This school is encouraging young people to experiment with a lifestyle that is dangerous and immoral. I can’t believe such things are happening in America. When will this nightmare end?”

Why, every single time a wingnut is presented with “gay,” do they feel like they are being “encouraged to experiment with homosexuality?” In all seriousness, I think this is revelatory of the entire fundamentalist lifestyle and obsession with uncleanliness and sin. These are people who have been taught to fear themselves so much that they believe that merely being exposed to something different will immediately lead to them dressing in drag, marching in pride parades and having sex with the lights on for the first time.

“Do you think Mr. Chambers will tell his students that life expectancy for a 20-year-old practicing homosexual is 8 to 20 years shorter than that for non-homosexuals males? I would not bet on it,” wrote Allan D.

Why would he lie to them, Allan D.? Schools are places for education, not fundamentalist indoctrination.

“I have a suggestion. Since Chambers thinks “a release of students’ inner conflict about homosexuality” is good, why not make a play educating the public on the destructiveness of the LGBT lifestyle? That will sure elicit that ‘reaction of disgust’ which he thinks is ‘a good sign.’ The play would be nonfiction, too!” wrote “John John.”

Thanks, John John. Actually, though, virtually nothing that fundamentalists believe — like the above comment demonstrates — is nonfiction.

“I applaud the young men that got up and left the show,” wrote Jacqueline. ”It shows courage to stand up for what is right. Instead of sitting by silently and being forced to accept views they do not agree with, they stood up for their on beliefs and convictions. Real men stand with courage for what is right.”

By getting up and running away, showing the world that they can’t handle being confronted with people who are different from them! Pathetic.

We’ll wrap this up with some bullroar from Marcia Segelstein, writing for World Magazine:

Getting rid of bullies isn’t the real point of productions like these, which happen in different forms and with different names in schools across the country. The real goal is to stamp out any objections—moral or religious—to practicing homosexuality.

Well, considering the fact that we’re the only side that’s actually trying to do anything about bullying, I think it’s quaint that the Religious Right is still trying to absolve themselves from responsibility for creating the climate where anti-gay bullying happens. I mean, I understand why they do. People don’t like to realize that their entire worldview is responsible for kids ending up so depressed and self-loathing that they end their lives.

The grown-up reaction would be to accept it, process it, and then try to make it better.

Or they could just continue sticking their fingers in their ears and running out of the proverbial school assembly any time it’s brought up.

Posted January 20th, 2011 by Evan Hurst

This is good news for all gay couples who choose to have children via surrogates:

During a two-year legal battle, Anthony and Shawn Raftopol, Americans who live in Holland, worried that only one of the men was the legal parent of their young twin boys.

The gay couple married legally in Massachusetts in 2008. Their twins, Sebastiann and Lukas, now 2, were born in Connecticut through in-vitro fertilization with a donor egg and a surrogate mother.

Anthony Raftopol was the biological father and, under family law, had full parental rights. But when the couple tried to obtain a birth certificate, also naming Shawn, they were told he had no legal claim to the children.

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But the Connecticut Supreme Court ruled this week that Shawn Raftopol, 40, has parenting rights, even thought he is not the biological father, because the couple had a valid surrogacy agreement.

The court rejected the state’s argument that the co-parent would have to go through a second-parent adoption proceeding in order to be listed on the birth certificates.

The decision will have far-reaching ramifications for other couples — gay and straight — who choose to have their children through surrogacy.

It seems like such a no-brainer, but it’s good news that the courts are slowly starting to catch up.

Posted October 8th, 2010 by Michael Airhart

Stephen Bennett at churchEx-gay activist Stephen Bennett dropped off our radar screen last year when he got a real job as a Realtor and allowed his website to go dead.

Now he’s back. His ministry web site skips over the whole real-estate shebang and maintains that “SBM is a full-time evangelistic and educational ministry” while begging for donations of $5 per month.

Bennett has always exhibited a sizable ego, and for 2011 Bennett has a vision to match: A grand 10th-anniversary ministry conference in the thriving metropolis of Shelton, Connecticut, led by “many special guest speakers” that he can’t name at a location that he doesn’t disclose.

Perhaps the conference will be at the Central Baptist Church pictured here? Does this church really host regular sermons by Bennett and nobody else? And why is the parking lot empty? Is the empty parking lot representative of his congregation, or the number of people who knew him when he says he was gay, or the desolate life of an ex-gay minister who is ostracized by the remainder of the ex-gay activist community?

Stephen Bennett Ministries: photoshopped auditorium?To dispel any doubts about his popularity and the likely size of his conference, Bennett supplies what appears to be a stock photo of a crowded auditorium — seemingly altered to show a giant photoshopped SBM ministry splash screen on the stage and a photoshopped banner for his antigay parental support group on the side wall.

We strongly encourage suckers believers to send $169 to Stephen and wife Irene to attend the conference and report back. Tell Bennett’s social-media sidekick Janet Hensley that we said hello. (Hensley and I had some encounters long ago, when I edited Ex-Gay Watch.)

Addendum: Noted for future reference: Stephen’s personal, realtor-friendly blog hasn’t seen activity since December 2009. His ex-gay blog is current. Here’s Stephen on Twitter and Facebook.

Posted November 27th, 2009 by Michael Airhart

Reported by AP via Edge yesterday:

The Roman Catholic Diocese of Bridgeport has acknowledged in court papers that it documented 32 accusations of sexual abuse of children by priests associated with a parish here over 40 years.

The diocese made the admission last week in contesting a lawsuit filed by the estate of Michael Powel, who died last year. Mr. Powel had claimed that he was sexually abused at St. Theresa’ Parish in Trumbull between 1968, when he was 9, and 1972, when he was 13.

However, while the diocese admits the abuse, it refuses to accept responsibility — and it is seeking to suppress proof of the abuse:

The diocese is contesting a request from Mr. Powel’ lawyers to turn over all documents regarding sexual abuse by priests at the parish. In its filing in Superior Court in Waterbury, the diocese said it had compiled 126 boxes of documents and files detailing 32 accusations of abuse by eight priests at St. Theresa’. …

Mr. Powel’ lawyers said that the motion by the diocese was a “bait-and-switch” to avoid producing documents by Wednesday, a date previously agreed upon to provide discovery materials.

The Diocese of Bridgeport is one of 50 dioceses and bishops that donated a total of $550,000 to undermine marriage for same-sex couples in Maine, even as parishes and church charity programs back home are closing for lack of funding.

Posted June 27th, 2009 by Michael Airhart

While Exodus International maintains a don’t-support-don’t-oppose policy, some ex-gay activists have spoken out against the ex-gay exorcist church in Bridgeport, Conn.

The Fairfield Weekly reported June 18:

Rev. D.L. Foster, who heads Gay Christian Movement Watch, an Atlanta-based “ministry” that opposes the acceptance of homosexuality in the church, posted [the video] on his Web site.

“I thought what I saw in the video was bizarre and I don’t think [the practice depicted] is biblical,” Foster says. “There is a sense of spiritual coercion. You have a young man on the floor being stepped on, being videotaped.” He says he has seen incidents like this (he doesn’t condone them), but “this is extreme.”

Posted June 26th, 2009 by Michael Airhart

Truth Wins Out has been monitoring the unfortunate news of a Connecticut church that performs ex-gay exorcism; Exodus International has refused to explicitly oppose the practice.

Rod 2.0 Beta reports:

A minister and trusted source of Rod 2.0 reports the 16-year-old boy no longer attends the church and has found an LGBT “inclusive and affirming” church.


McKinney suggested to CNN that her church may exorcise people for many reasons: “It’s not just the homosexuality spirit. It could be the alcohol spirit, the crack cocaine spirit, the adultery spirit. Everything carries a spirit.”

McKinney’s church remains under investigation by the Connecticut Department of Children and Families.

Posted June 25th, 2009 by Michael Airhart

Truth Wins Out reported earlier this week on Manifested Glory Ministries, a “church” in Connecticut that performs ex-gay exorcisms.

We immediately called upon Exodus’ member church in Connecticut, New Life Church in Meriden, to comment on the exorcism. The church did not respond. Today, however, MSNBC quotes Exodus International in Orlando stating that it does not support exorcism — but does not oppose exorcism, either.

And a fringe group called the “Christian Anti-Defamation Commission” has declared the abuse of gay youths and young adults by so-called churches to be an exercise in “religious liberty” and, strangely, a response to white racism. (Perhaps the demons of homosexuality are white?) Hat tip: Ex-Gay Watch.

Here’s MSNBC’s video report and related article:

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Posted June 19th, 2009 by Michael Airhart

A Bridgeport, Conn., church called Manifested Glory Ministries posted a controversial video on YouTube that raises concern about the unregulated abuse of children by church-sponsored ex-gay programs.

The video features church elders performing an exorcism of so-called “homosexual demons.”

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Fox Channel 61 in Hartford reports

The video shows leaders of the Manifested Glory Ministries in a frenetic scene, screaming, “Right now I command you to leave!”

At the same time a teen writhing on the ground as the adults around him implore so called “homosexual demons” to get out.

The leaders yell at the boy on the ground saying, “Right now in the name of Jesus, I call the homosexuality, right now in the name of Jesus.”

For 20 minutes it continues with the boy in a near seizure, even vomiting.

Robin McHaelen runs a mentoring program for gay teens, True Colors, and tells Fox 61 that she knows of five other teens in Connecticut who’ve been subjected to “demon casting”:

What really freaked me out is the people who did that to that child wasn’t because they were trying to hurt him. They thought they were trying to help him, but I think that they murdered his soul.

The church has since taken down its YouTube account, but not before its videos were replicated by other YouTube users.

Exodus International has one member church in Connecticut, New Life in Meriden. Truth Wins Out contacted the church for comment but has not received a response.

Hat tip: Steve Rothaus’s blog at The Miami Herald