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Posted November 22nd, 2011 by Wayne Besen

athomewithmyselfDavid Mixner returns with his first book in 10 years. In At Home with Myself, Mixner writes from and about his country home in Turkey Hollow, an upstate New York town so small and remote that it has just 10 residents, there’s no cable TV, the nearest airport is a three hour drive, and deer and bear are his closest neighbors. However, these bucolic surroundings provide an ideal setting for observation and reflection.

Drawing on his considerable talents as a storyteller in the tradition of Garrison Keillor and Will Rogers, Mixner chronicles his return to nature at the age of 60. No longer willing to do the things young people do and having lost most of his closet friends to AIDS, he felt out of place in the big cities and “gay mecccas” that had been his home all his adult life. So he chose a mountainside home as a retreat from the busy world, a place of meditation on the small, daily wonders of pastoral life, including the beauty of nature and its constant evolution.

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Praise for At Home With Myself

“This book is in a class by itself.  No one has ever combined powerful leadership and political activism with gentle, homespun insights like David Mixner.  He is truly an inspiration to me – for his courage as well as his unique wisdom and humanity.”
Judith Light
“His mesmerizing blend of wit, dignity and homespun charm makes you feel you are curled up on the porch with him!”
- Alan Cumming
“He shares stories stories, wisdom and insights in a wonderful, generous and enjoyable style – kind and satisfying.  The observations from Turkey Hollow, like Thoreau’s at Walden, are compassionate and keen. The diary like vignettes show the ways that ordinary lives are momentous and simple joys the deepest pleasure.”
- Uravashi Vaid
Posted September 14th, 2010 by Wayne Besen

In today’s New York Times there is a story about how the GOP wants to keep Bush’s tax-cuts for the wealthiest Americans. At the end of the article, it mentions the upcoming vote on Don’t Ask/Don’t Tell — and discusses opposition by Senator John McCain (R-Ariz.). The senator actually has the nerve to say that Majority Leader Harry Reid is scheduling a vote because of politics instead of principle. According to the Times:

The senior Republican on the Armed Services Committee, said he would try to block the Pentagon measure because he said the White House was moving to repeal “don’t ask, don’t tell” without properly gauging the impact on battle readiness and troop morale.

Mr. McCain said that he did not believe there was time to complete the bill and that Democrats had other motivations. “Everything that’s done around here is done for political reasons,” he said. “And Harry Reid does everything for political reasons.”

You’ve got to be kidding me.

This is the same John McCain who has reinvented himself as a Tea Party conservative in the past year to win his GOP primary. This is the same John McCain that put our national security at risk by choosing the inexperienced Sarah Palin as his Vice Presidential nominee. This is the same McCain who ran for president as a maverick, but now denies that he is a maverick. This is the same crass politician who spent his sorry career pushing for campaign finance reform– only to run away from the issue in this year’s campaign. This is the same McCain who wanted sensible immigration reform, but now supports the draconian and discriminatory Arizona law and poses by the border saying we should build the dang fence.

In the history of modern politics, has there been a more protean politician than John McCain? Has there been a bigger phony in Washington? If there is, I certainly can’t recall his or her name. John McCain is a self-absorbed, power-hungry charlatan who stands for only one issue: His career.

Our friend David Mixner wrote a good piece in 2007, “The Selling Out of John McCain”. Here is a short article I wrote on McCain.

Posted March 2nd, 2010

Truth Wins Out held its first New York City benefit last Friday and raised more than $10,000 to fight religious extremism and the ex-gay myth. Philanthropist Henry van Ameringen, who pledged $25,000 this year, hosted the event. The elegant party drew more than 50 people who braved a messy snowstorm that turned the city’ streets into frozen slush.

“We are incredibly grateful for the ongoing support of Henry van Ameringen and we thank him for hosting a delightful evening that introduced Truth Wins Out to new supporters,” said TWO Executive Director Wayne Besen.

A highlight of the event was a $5,000 contribution from Tom Viola, Executive Director of Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS. This organization mobilizes the unique abilities within the entertainment industry to mitigate the suffering of individuals affected by HIV/AIDS. It also facilitates the fundraising capabilities of the theatre community for other charitable organizations.

“It was quite an honor to receive this unexpected gift from Tom Viola and Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS,” said TWO’ Besen. “They do such amazing work and we are proud to be a recipient of their legendary benevolence.”

Truth Wins Out also expressed its gratitude today for those who served on the host committee and ensured a successful evening despite the inclement weather. The host committee includes: Ted Snowdon, John Berendt, Sean Strub, Anabel Evora, Mike Wilke, David Mixner, William Kapfer, Ph.D, Gene Stone, Glen Shadix and Lisa Darden.

One special guest was Moses, a gay Ugandan who spoke out at the National Press Club in February against his country’ Anti-Homosexuality bill. He was joined by Patrick McAlvey, who appeared in a Truth Wins Out video discussing his unpleasant experience in an Exodus ex-gay ministry.

If you were not at the benefit but would like to make a tax-deductible donation to Truth Wins Out, please send a check to:

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Posted October 6th, 2009 by Wayne Besen

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If I were advising President Barack Obama, I would tell him to pay as much attention to the ornery jeers from protesters outside the Human Rights Campaign’ Oct. 10th Washington dinner as the cheers coming from inside the ornate ballroom.

“The last thing we need is more flowery rhetoric in front of rich, self-effacing gays and lesbians dressed up like penguins,” said Andy Thayer of the Gay Liberation Network, who plans to picket the event.

The cross mood expressed by Thayer is indicative of the restlessness felt by the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender grass roots in the early stages of Obama’ presidency.

The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) deserves a heaping helping of praise for furnishing a primetime platform for Obama to impart his message. But, the President and HRC must realize that the stakes are even higher than the price of the steaks served in the ballroom of the black-tie affair. While no one will likely yell, “you lie” in the middle of his remarks, there will be a collective sigh if all we get is a pretty speech.

Let it be known that the GLBT community is no longer interested in being pals with the powerful or having the famous tell us we are fabulous – unless it leads to action. If the goal of this evening were simply to provide an interesting dinner guest, Meryl Streep or Michael Moore would have sufficed. What we want from Obama, however, is a fighter working to set us free. We need signed paper in the form of laws, not paper-thin promises and illusive signs of hope. Unless a concrete vision is offered at this event, Obama’ speech will sink like concrete in the Potomac River. (Read More)

Posted September 21st, 2009 by Wayne Besen

Fresh off its wing nut wingding on the National Mall, the far-out fringe held its “Values Voter” summit in Washington last week. The highlight was jilted former Miss California, Carrie Prejean, starting a brand new religion — “MEvangelical Christianity”. In her remarkably self-centered, narcissistic speech, she cast herself as a martyr on a mission and repeatedly had to remind the audience that she wasn’t as stuck up as she appeared on stage.

Prejean’s introspective idolatry was almost outdone by Michael Schwartz, the chief of staff for Sen. Tom Coburn. For those who do not remember, Coburn is the Oklahoma Republican who once criticized the movie Schindler’s List for its nudity. Thank God for our watchdog, Senator Coburn, or lusting after malnourished and gaunt holocaust victims might have caught on.

With a mentor like Coburn, it was only natural for Schwartz to become an expert on pornography, and we were fortunate to have him share his wisdom at a Values Voter discussion on “The New Masculinity”.

On the cusp of insulting gay people, Schwartz told the rabid right crowd that he was about to get “politically incorrect.” Why bother with a disclaimer, as if gay bashing is actually controversial at such rallies? If he really wanted to shock the crowd, he would have introduced “Schwartz’ List” — naming all the social conservatives caught in tawdry sex scandals. But, alas he only had an hour, clearly not enough time for this endeavor.

Schwartz called pornography a “blight” and a “disease”. Although he failed to point out it disproportionally afflicts Republicans, with “Red States” having the highest rates of pornography subscriptions. The porno politico then agreed with an “ex-gay” friend of his that said, “‘All pornography is homosexual pornography because all pornography turns your sexual drive inwards.’ Now think about that. And if you, if you tell an 11-year-old boy about that, do you think he’s going to want to go out and get a copy of Playboy? I’m pretty sure he’ll lose interest. That’s the last thing he wants.’ You know, that’s a, that’s a good comment. It’s a good point and it’s a good thing to teach young people.”

So, straight porn will turn you gay and holocaust nudity is erotic. Just plain, homespun common sense.

Now that the loons have finally left DC, there is the question of whether the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community should march on Washington. The main event is scheduled for October 11th and it is highly anticipated by a new breed of Internet-age activists.

There is, however, opposition from many local GLBT organizations and movement activists who believe that resources spent in Washington would be put to better use fighting battles in the states.

I am highly sympathetic to statewide leaders who have performed heroic work, even though they lack crucial resources. And they are correct that the GLBT movement needs to continue fighting and educating at the local level. This will not only bring us victory in the states, but will change the facts on the ground in congressional districts, increasing the chance Congress will vote for equality.

Still, I agree with Equality Across America organizer Cleve Jones and long-time activist David Mixner that now is the time to go to Washington. No matter how much state organizers would prefer we march on state capitols, it is not the same. A rally in sleepy towns like Tallahassee or Albany changes your afternoon plans, while a trip to DC changes your life. (Read More)