CNN reported yesterday about “former lesbian” Lisa Miller‘s abduction of Isabella, and includes 2005 video interviews of Miller and former partner Janet Jenkins.
The misnamed Family Foundation of Virginia is quoted supporting Miller.
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Posted January 4th, 2010 by Michael Airhart
CNN reported yesterday about “former lesbian” Lisa Miller‘s abduction of Isabella, and includes 2005 video interviews of Miller and former partner Janet Jenkins. The misnamed Family Foundation of Virginia is quoted supporting Miller.
Posted January 3rd, 2010 by Evan Hurst
Oh boy. This doesn’t have anything to do with gay rights or the ex-gay movement, but I think it’s revelatory of a certain worldview we deal with on a regular basis. This happened on Fox News this morning:
Jesus is magic, you see! Because people who convert to Christianity never ever EVER run around on their wives, no NEVER. This is the same worldview that beatifies Lisa Miller because she’s become a fundamentalist Christian. This is the same worldview that asserts that gay people can’t be Christians. This is the same worldview that worships Our Sarah Of The Perpetual Word Salad, even though they don’t really know what her positions are*, because she’s One Of Them. This is the same worldview that would never stop to question whether groups like the Family Research Council, Focus on the Family, Concerned Women for ‘Murka, as well as their assigned pundits, et al. might be lying to them through their teeth/playing their adherents for fools, because they know their followers will never factcheck them. Or if they DO factcheck them, they factcheck within the echo chamber: “Rush was a-talkin’ about it, and then I saw it on Hannity too, and then OneNewsNow had a press release about it, so I’ma gwine-a say this is probably true!” Hume’s quote also references the obsession that many American Conservatives have with “the redemption story.” I’m all for changing course and righting past wrongs, but with these people it goes much further. Ted Haggard says he’s “redeemed” from Teh Gay? Well, praises be! Let’s not look at any of the science/question whether his claim is even valid. Nope, it’s a redemption story! Slurp, slurp, slurp. Convicted Watergate criminal Chuck Colson is one of the luminaries of the Religious Right. It’s a redemption story! Slurp. And again, since it’s a thread running through so many of our conversations these days: Lisa Miller. She can do no wrong because She Hath Been Redeemeth-ed! SLURP. Here’s the video, if you want to suffer through it. It’s kind of funny, because after Brit Hume says the weird thing about Tiger needing to find Jesus, Bill Kristol, who is usually the wingnuttiest of them all, sort of shoots this uncomfortable look because he’s sort of, um, Jewish. (h/t Rumproast and Balloon Juice) *Yeah, that’s totally a Sarah Palin Parking Lot link. Watch it if you need entertainment for Sunday Funday!
Posted January 2nd, 2010 by Michael Airhart
Truth Wins Out broke the news on Wednesday about Thurman’s support for parental abduction. TWO quoted much of the original post. The blog LezGetReal discovered the blog deletion last night. The writer of that post, Melanie Nathan, followed up with a humane appeal to Miller and Thurman today. What follows is a record of most of the comments that appeared on the original post prior to the blog’s deletion. (Read More)
Posted January 1st, 2010 by Evan Hurst
This was unfortunately predictable:
Continued, from the Washington Post:
All of this could have been avoided if Lisa Miller had obeyed the law in the first place, instead of abiding by the terms of her fundamentalist brainwashing, denying Isabella’s other mother access to her and refusing to obey court orders. Sad. We can only hope that little Isabella is okay. (h/t Autumn Sandeen, who has more)
Posted December 31st, 2009 by Michael Airhart
The Rutland Herald Reports this morning:
The newspaper confirms that the Christian Right’s Liberty Counsel knew “for some time” that Miller had absconded with the child and apparently failed to notify authorities. However, the Herald also reports:
Normally, a state such as Virginia is required to honor the family laws of the state which has jurisdiction over a family — in this case, Vermont. But in Virginia, Christian fundamentalists assert that their state’s antigay laws preclude cooperation with the enforcement orders of states whose laws do not comply with their own state’s legislated religion-based bigotry. The Herald continues:
Whether Miller will be located and jailed for contempt of court, or prosecuted and imprisoned for apparent kidnapping — legally speaking, a felony charge of “custodial interference” with a potential 5-year jail sentence — remains to be seen. Hat tip: Box Turtle Bulletin
Posted December 30th, 2009 by Michael Airhart
On the Facebook support group for “ex-gay” poster mom Lisa Miller, several people — including the group’s creator — are praying for the success of Miller’s ongoing contempt-of-court and the apparent kidnapping of her daughter, just days before Miller was due to turn over the seven-year-old Isabella to ex-partner Janet Jenkins. Ex-gay activist Debbie Thurman, creator of the support group, today cheered the disappearance of Miller sometime earlier this month. Thurman’s blog called this apparent kidnapping an example of “true motherhood”:
Thurman’s statement seems to confirm allegations that Miller is being used by Thurman and Christian Rightists at the Liberty Counsel as a test case for their Manhattan Declaration, which is a vow to violate any law that fundamentalists happen to disagree with. Thurman’s statement and those of many others on the Facebook group are saturated with the false piety of people who believe themselves to be unaccountable to any law and answerable only to self-serving reinterpretations of the Bible. Drew Taggart prays “that people ‘along the way’ are brave enough and smart enough to render the necessary assistance to Lisa and Isabella so this girl can be raised in a healthy environment. I just hope Lisa did her homework and did this disappearing act properly.” In a subsequent defense of this statement, Taggart says:
Several other deluded supporters “pray” that the state of Virginia is given a fundamentalist special right to ignore the family-law jurisdiction of other states and to harbor kidnappers and their children.
Posted December 29th, 2009 by Wayne Besen
In a fit of holier-than-thou zeal, Miller went on the lam and absconded from Vermont with the child the couple were raising together after having a Civil Union. (Nothing like teaching a child the family values of honesty, integrity, honoring commitments, law and order and respect for others) As a result of Miller’s poor parenting and criminal behavior (she was cited for contempt of court), a Vermont court transferred custody to Jenkins (after a five year legal ordeal that will surely leave emotional scars for their child Isabella) and refused a motion to delay transfer, as requested by Miller’s law team. People for the American Way’s Right Wing Watch reports today that the location of Miller and 7-year-old Isabella Miller are presently “unknown”. This is highly problematic because the court order takes effect on New Year’s Day. Right Wing Watch reports:
Let us hope this is the case. If Miller continues to flout the law and make a mockery of the system and her parental responsibility, there should be a heavy price to pay. No one is above the law and even fundamentalist fugitives who obstruct and abuse the rules have to suffer the consequences. If Miller can’t obey the law, than this case should be transferred into the hands of law enforcement officials. Perhaps, some time in the clink will clear Miller’s mind and let her reflect on the miserable morals she has taught her daughter, while she has been dodging her responsibility as a parent and decent human being.
Posted December 22nd, 2009 by Michael Airhart
Thurman said:
As things stand, Miller — who for five years has violated Vermont family-court rulings that she must share visitation rights over her daughter — is required on Jan. 1 to turn over daughter Isabella to former partner Janet Jenkins, due to Miller’s refusal to obey previous court rulings. Miller’s attorneys at the Christian Right’s Liberty Counsel view the case as an opportunity to turn U.S. states’ family courts against one another, allowing culturally fundamentalist states such as Virginia to disregard the rightful jurisdiction of other states (as well as the religious freedom of co-parents and children) and harbor people who claim that Jesus gives them special permission to be deadbeat parents. Since Miller remains unwilling to comply with the courts of either Virginia or Vermont, we can expect more unfortunate drama in this case in mid-January. Meantime, Thurman tonight offered a sickening dose of false piety: Sympathetic “Christmas” prayers for those who exploit Isabella, and cold silence to those who value child welfare and the rule of law.
Posted November 23rd, 2009 by Michael Airhart
A Rutland, Vermont, Family Court judge ruled Friday that “ex-gay” activist Lisa Miller, who absconded with her daughter Isabella in 2004 and violated numerous visitation orders since then, must transfer custody to her ex-spouse Janet Jenkins. The Rutland Herald reported, “In a 21-page order, Judge William Cohen granted sole custody of 7-year-old Isabella Miller to her nonbiological but court-recognized parent, Janet Jenkins.” The transfer will take effect Jan. 1. Jenkins will allow Lisa to visit Isabella and to take Isabella to church events. Lisa’s complete loss of custody shocked “ex-gay” activist Debbie Thurman, who favors a supposed right of states to harbor deadbeat parents in the name of Christianity — but it should have shocked no one. For five years, Miller violated court rulings in Vermont and Virginia that agreed upon Vermont’s jurisdiction in the case and therefore affirmed Jenkins’ visitation rights as a co-parent. Had Lisa not made her daughter a pawn in fundamentalist cultural warfare conducted by Jerry Falwell’s Liberty Counsel, and had Lisa simply permitted visitation as required under law, she would have retained custody. Unfortunately, Lisa, Thurman, and the Liberty Counsel intend to continue using Isabella as a pawn. The Herald says the LC’s Mathew Staver plans to fight on two fronts:
In short, Thurman holds out hope that a Virginia court will violate nationally agreed-upon protocols for the resolution of family-law disputes and continue to allow the state to harbor Isabella against the wishes of Vermont, which holds jurisdiction over the family. Carl Tobias, University of Richmond professor of law, told The Herald that he didn’t think appeals courts in either state would overturn the decision.
Posted November 11th, 2009 by Michael Airhart
Readers may recall that Miller has been championed by Christian Rightists and ex-gay activists for her claimed victory over homosexuality and for violating Jenkins’ visitation rights — even though Miller later admitted that she had not really been sexually attracted to her ex-partner, and therefore she was never really lesbian. Thurman writes:
Thurman and the Liberty Counsel both seek to undermine the nation’s family-law system by enabling states to violate one another’s family-court rulings and thus to harbor deadbeat dads, non-custodial parents and their kidnapped kids, and other fugitives from justice. Far from upholding freedom, Thurman undermines not only the religious freedom but the freedom-to-parent of those who lose their children to lawbreaking ex-spouses. | ||||||||||||||